Guest16 Posted January 18, 2007 Posted January 18, 2007 I have been with my fiance for three and a half years now, we've been engaged for two and a half years of the above-mentioned years. He's ALWAYS watched porn...even when I wasn't ok with it...he started to lie about it, so I gave in and said 'I'll be more accepting.' And he kept doing it which is alright, I guess... HOWEVER, I made him a video of me cumming and he said it got boring so he doesn't watch it anymore...he wants me to make him new ones so he'll have variety. I think this is just his mind shooting out that I'm ugly...he says I'm not but yet he tells me I'm overweight...but I saw one girl who was bigger on me on his porn folder... I'm utterly confused and don't know what to think...HELP!
whichwayisup Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 Is his porn watching interferring in your sex life? Is he preferring beating off to porn than having sex with you? If yes, then he has problem. If not, then he just enjoys porn for what it is. Nothing more, nothing less, just a fun way of getting off and having some fun alone. Don't make it about you, I didn't like what I read when you said "I think this is just his mind shooting out that I'm ugly...he says I'm not but yet he tells me I'm overweight..." You are not ugly!! Ask him WHY he feels the need to watch it. How is the rest of your relationship with him? In and out of the bedroom...
Krytellan Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 He asked you to make more for variety. How does that mean you're ugly exactly?
JackJack Posted February 12, 2007 Posted February 12, 2007 He's ALWAYS watched porn...even when I wasn't ok with it... So he doesn't even take into accout your feelings on the matter? so I gave in and said 'I'll be more accepting.' This was not good enough either to him I would imagine, because sounds like he did it reguardless. Tell him he needs to be more accepting or open to the idea of you watching a bunch of naked men. Also tell him you would like a video of him messing with himself. he says I'm not but yet he tells me I'm overweight... Maybe is concerned for your health? But since he seems pretty insenstive, thats probably not it.
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