Guest Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 grounds for not seeing the person again? I dunno, kissing is important to me. Anyone start off as a bad kissing match with their partner and have that change into good kissing?
TheDC Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 Ok how bad can it possibly be? Why not just tell them what you like or show them and train them to what you like. Unless they are told they'll never learn. I don't think being a bad kisser is ground enough to stop seeing someone. It's like any other skill, you need a good teacher and practise.
dropdeadlegs Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 A first kiss can be wrought with nerves and anxiety so I wouldn't consider it grounds for not seeing someone I was otherwise attracted to. Kissing is very important to me too, but it can come around to being pleasurable, even if it's not done exactly the way your dream kiss is performed. I was in a relationship with someone who was what I consider the best kisser I have ever been with. Those kisses just made me putty in his hands, sexually. But, he was incapable of any real commitment and the kiss was not worth accepting that. Kissing and sex are merely a part of a large equation. I didn't immediately care for the way my current BF kissed me initially and we never spoke of it. I did the old "do what you like, and express your pleasure while doing it" and I now find that his manner of kissing is quite erotic, just a bit more open mouthed than I preferred. It is actually easier to maintain breathing the way he kisses me, but I will plant a deep one on him at times and I think we are both happy with the amount and quality of the kissing in our relationship. Of course if the kiss is repulsive to you over time a discussion would be in order. I want to please my partner and am surely willing to make changes in order to achieve that within my boundaries.
Mermaiden Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 What about dragon breath ? Was interested in a really gorgeous guy until we were standing outside in the cold night air and his bad breath still hung heavily in the air. Good hygeine is sexy ! I just cant get over that. It was like he had 3 week old strands of rotting chicken stuck in his teeth. Beyond revolting.
Capatinacen Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 grounds for not seeing the person again? I dunno, kissing is important to me. Sounds low to me. So what if kissing is important to you. Maybe he thinks your a bad kisser.
guin_girl Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 my current guy didn't kiss the way I like originally... but I must say he's coming along nicely and doesn't even know he's being retrained
ash519 Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 A few years ago I went on a date with this guy who I had a huge crush on in high school. Turns out 3 years after graduation, he had had a crush on me to! Anyways, we went on a mediocre first date and at the end he went in for the kiss: He had one of those stiff, pointy, darty little tongues................and i never called him again. Well, I did tell him it wasnt going to work (I forget the excuse i used). But i will never forget that HORENDOUS first kiss!!!!!! But if i really clicked with a guy maybe it wouldnt be a deal breaker, but it would need to be fixed quickly!
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