jontheranch Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 Im so down..... 6 months ago I thought I'd met the one. He came into the fitness center I worked at in a local hospital. He was so good-looking and seemed so nice. So we began to talk more and more which lead to us meeting for drinks one afternoon. In past conversation, he had mentioned he was "seeing someone" but since he only mentioned it early on when we started talking, I didnt think she was in the picture anymore. Well, I finally asked him when we were having drinks. He said he was still seeing someone, but he no longer wanted to be with her, blah blah....he said, "with her there is just something missing" so I told him I was definitely interested so if he wanted to date, let me know as long as he clears up things with her....well, a few days later he finally ended the 3 YEAR RELATIONSHIP!!! I had no idea it went on for that long. He wanted to spend time with me, I thought it was quick, but he reassured me, I was NOT a rebound. well, here I am 4 months later, heartbroken because now he has said that he just needs some "mental space"...he is not ready to answer to anyone right now. Right before Christmas, his grandpa died and thats when I started to notice the changes in behavior. He didnt hang out with me on Christmas Eve or NYE, woudlnt answer the phone in front of me, kept finding my toothbrush in his bathroom drawer, just weird things. I had a feeling something was going on...well there was. One say I drove up to his house and saw another girl leaving...then I knew. He swore up and down she was a "friend" he's known for all his life, blah blah. Then he said he loved me, he was not sleeping with her, it's def. not what it looks like...you know. Anyway, Sunday I had to tell him I had to let him go....I cant stand to think of him with another girl. He said he still wanted me to be a part of his life and he missed me, but whats with the mystery chick??How can I still be a part of his life?? I said "please tell me if you want to see other people!!! I understand." But to this day he says he is not interested in her, he wants me he just needs some time. I don't know what to do...he texted me today randomly to say my favorite song was on the radio...why??? How do I handle this?? He is a great guy and I want this to work...Im so depressed and confused.
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