lovelorcet Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 I think around the Holidays is a really common time for people to get dumped. It was just after christmas time last year that my relationship fell apart. So for all of you who are just starting to go through all of this don't get too beat down. As I look back at the last year it was both the saddest and most exciting time of my life. -My wife left me for another man and I was devastated and heart broken. -After spending about a month losing my mind I accepted my fate and started just focusing on myself. -For the first time I really realized how many wonderful friends I have. -Started smoking again -Found a new and cool apartment in the city here -Once word was out on the street I was free I got slammed with girls taking an interest in me -Was going out all the time and working out a lot (still am more or less ;-) ) -Met a really exciting girl -Got a motorcycle -Had tons of free time to enjoy the summer -Quit smoking -Crashed the motorcycle and broke my arm and got to spend a week in the hospital (it was pretty exciting though and thank god for leather) -Exciting Girl turns out to be a pretty amazing woman -Can't actually really remember the last time I even conversed with the EX and I don't really even care... -Am now repairing motorcycle for the coming spring And that is just to highlight a few things... So really things do get better.
shockandawed Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 Thanks for sharing your story. Getting dumped for another man, especially around the holidays really sucks. I am at the month part myself. I am tired of my month long pity party and am starting to look forward. I am thinking about trying to date a little, just casually to keep my occupied. No settling until Ms Right comes along. I travel some during the week and I have promised myself streneous workouts. And I am going to keep time for myself. I can't wait to get on here next January and list my accomplishments. Thanks and Congrats!!!!
riobikini Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 Lovelorcet: Glad you quit smoking. Terrific that you are feeling/doing much better! Hate it that you crashed your bike. Hope your arm healed well. Good luck with your new "Amazing Woman". Keep working out. Hope you have more than just a sofa and bed in your new city apt. -And wish you all the best in the new year! (Smile) -Rio
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