blessmylove Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 I have been dating my bf for over two years. He used to married for 6 years and got divorce. After I've known him for 6 months we were talking about getting married. He and I live in different country but we can always find time to meet. He said he wanted to move to live with me but lately he said it seems to be big commitment for hime to do that. He said my clock is ticking and he doesn't know when he will be ready to get married again with me. He said he wants to be free until he feels like he wants to get married he will propose me. When time comes,time comes...That what he always tell me. I'm not getting younger with age od early 30's. Everytime we talk about this,he said I give him pressure and he doesn't like it. he even said if I can wait then wait,otherwise I can go for another guy and leave him. Sometime he said we are so far away,he wish he could have me with him now,and he said "hurry up,let's get married". I know it was a temporary emotion felling but in reality he's not ready. Last night I talk to him about getting married and he said he is not ready. His feeling is not set and he deosn't even know when it will be. He couldn't even give me timeline....He said he doesn't want to give any big hope to me... I know I should move on and it so hard for me to do it...please help me...advise me what I should do...
bab Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 If marriage and children are something that is important to you, then you have to move on. It is hard to get to the point of marriage when you are in a long distance relationship and your bf has made it clear that it probably isn't coming anytime soon. It is possible for you to find somone closer to you that you will have a better chance of getting to know and may be open to the idea of marriage and children. I know I should move on
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