omfg Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 Can I make this happen, Saw her 3months ago at a club, I noticed her looking at me, got her #. She called me at 2am that same night but I was asleep and missed the call. Was it for a booty call or to say she had a good time? She came to see me the following week at the club (she came alone, I had 20+ people there), to see me. Went well and some light petting and flirting. 2 months pass from holidays and her obviously already dating someone else and without us going on a date. We are both players. We talk about every 2weeks and say to get together but falls through. 2 attempts to have a date until January 1st. She calls me on NYE and says we should hangout new years night. We go out, 1hr drive to her best friend (girl) and her friend's X. Night goes good, i pass the tests of approval from them, ya kno, the friends have to love me too. She says we should go singing alone next time (kareoke), good sign. We hungout the following day together, she was super happy (loved the date), and said right after date that we should hangout next week....Didnt happen WTF? What is she thinking? By the second date I knew she was special so i am willing to tame myself for her...how do i make her do the same? How do i tame the female player now that ive tamed myself for her? I know shes dating someone else still but how do i get her to decide and put major attention on me??? I know we are great together and click perfectly on our dates and now I really like this girl so far. Completely aside of her flakiness and her i can give a rats ass less than to call u back or respond to my text messages for the days we have "dates" already planned. Even though that is her possibly "playing hard to get", Thats what playettes do (a girl player). Yet I also play hard to get only when we are together to let her kno she's more than just a fling. I dont play agressive or try to kiss when we should, we both hold off during that kissing moment. Are we acting like teens or are we holding back anything physical until we cant take it anymore?! I would normally just be agressive and I would have kissed her the first date and sex but i knew there was something special so respect and waiting had to come into play. She likes me and knows im good for her but what do i do to make her dump her other men shes obviously dating? How do i make her call me back after i call her, not 30mins later or a day later? I usually wouldnt care because i date too so we are playing this game. But now i care because we have something good but she doesnt see it yet. And im sad because she blew off our weekend date. I now im stuck bc i cant get my mind off of her. ****!!!! shes good, she played me like a master player. I know she likes me! And i know the other guys arent that great for her to drunken dial me and for her to keep making dates. But how to sweep her away from the other guy(s) now that I know I really want her?? We had a date for Friday night, she rainchecked. She had to host a college social event at night which shes a president of. She called me that night, drunk dialing, saying she was parting with thos people, was getting drunk and for me to call her on sunday, drunking dialing, she was buzzed. I said ide call her sat to plan for sun. Needless to say i called her sat with VM, and didnt return the call. No call from her sunday. Of course at that point i was like theres no way im going to call anymore. Shes the one calling me for fri, sun, but she flakes bigtime! Shes had good intentions but no follow though, cares to see eachother but not enough. Its in her hands now to call. I may be sad my weekend was planned for her and was ruined but i really like her after our 2 really good dates, 3months... Now have to play for now like i dont give a ****--like a player just like her. When she does call back, bc she will. What do i say? Should i play the ******* card for 2 weeks letting her kno she cant play like that? what dont i say? Do i act mad to her for flaking while holding all my sad feelings inside or just play it off like no biggie like before i liked her? Do i call her out on why she didnt call me? Do i say she ruined my sat night by her not calling back and sunday for her flaking once again? I dont want her to feel bad as to make her feel pity for me but let her know she do that to me anymore, because i am no chump my any means... Just a man that finally found someone worth wanting as a girlfriend and hopefully, possibly more. Whats your advice?
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