Riverpig Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Hi, I recently had a good 1st date. I emailed afterwards and said I had a good time and said we should meet up again. She emailed back saying 'It would be good to see you again' etc and was generally positive. So, today, I emailed her proposing a 2nd date at the Weekend. She emailed back saying she was busy and that her comittments might make her busy for the whole term (University). She also said it would be hard to see any friends and she was confused. She concluded saying 'sorry to disappoint'. Now, how do I interpret this. She seemed keen after the first date and said 'It would be good to see you again', but is now rejecting a 2nd date ? Should I immediately suggest another day or what ? How should I handle this ?
Author Riverpig Posted January 15, 2007 Author Posted January 15, 2007 She specifically requested the use of email.
Author Riverpig Posted January 15, 2007 Author Posted January 15, 2007 Did she give you her phone number? Yes. She did.
gfto Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 So, today, I emailed her proposing a 2nd date at the Weekend. She emailed back saying she was busy and that her comittments might make her busy for the whole term (University). She also said it would be hard to see any friends and she was confused. She concluded saying 'sorry to disappoint'. She is simply not interested in you. Don't take it personally. Delete all her contact info and forget about her.
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Well, if she gave you her phone number, I don't get the email thing, unless she has another boyfriend...and that would explain why she's so busy... That or she had a good time and only wanted it to be one date... That's why calling is better...you can get her tone of voice (nervous, anxious) and her manner... I think you shouldn't bother with her either way and date someone who is into you and you don't have to wonder about it... But good luck!
luvtoto Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 She emailed back saying she was busy and that her comittments might make her busy for the whole term (University). She also said it would be hard to see any friends and she was confused. She concluded saying 'sorry to disappoint'. She is not interested in another date, Riverpig. Sorry to disappoint. If you asked for a second date, she rejected...then, don't ask again. Let her come to you. She might, she might not. Don't put her on the spot again.
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