ratingsguy Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 I know a lot of people here are big fans of NC once a relationship ends. However, what if your partner is interested in seeing less of each other or seeing other people? Is that also a good case for NC?
amaysngrace Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 I think so yes. If they want to see other people that makes me think they're not that into you. But still want you on the side. I would do NC in your case. If they are stringing you along like that you need to put your foot down. Unless you are okay with keeping them on the side too?
lorr Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Forgive me if I interpret it wrong. But if your in a relationship with someone what would be the need to suggest spending less time or seeing other people? Obviously it shows that the other person is either having doubts or is not satisfied within the relationship. Thats why when your in a relationship with someone in the first place,its always a good idea to have and develop your own interests, hobbies,independence and time away without feeling the need to live in your partners pocket.
sunangel Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 i think that seeing other people is gonna hurt you.... he must be confused cause out of no where he wants to seperate himself. something is NOT right here...... Good Luck and may you get the strength to drop him on his ass!
notmakingsense Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 I know a lot of people here are big fans of NC once a relationship ends. However, what if your partner is interested in seeing less of each other or seeing other people? Is that also a good case for NC? I've tried this before -- and being "demoted" from a committed exclusive relationship to a casual relationship is usually too painful for the person who didn't come up with the idea. It sounds like this person isn't that in to you any longer, but wants to keep his/her options open. I'd make a clean break.
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