Guest Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 My MM has been seperated for 3 years. I have left him for two years. I found my b/f was not as satisfying physically as my MM and I am back with the MM again... He says he loves me and wants to have a change in his life. He has been living with a friend for 3 years, but his wife still does all the bills, money, house, etc. He says he never stopped loving me and wants to be with me. I guess I feel anxious when I am involved with him. I love him, and we have wild chemistry, yet the anxiety persisits. My ex b/f and I had a much more peaceful relationship but there was no chemistry and passion. Also the MM is 20 years older than me, yikes! Not sure what to do.
noforgiveness Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 20 years older than you. Living with a friend. His wife does all bills and house and things. Think about it. Is this really what you want? A man this age who is not capable of taking care of himself that he lives with a friend and his wife gives him his allowance.
whichwayisup Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 My MM has been seperated for 3 years. I have left him for two years. I found my b/f was not as satisfying physically as my MM and I am back with the MM again... He says he loves me and wants to have a change in his life. He has been living with a friend for 3 years, but his wife still does all the bills, money, house, etc. He says he never stopped loving me and wants to be with me. I guess I feel anxious when I am involved with him. I love him, and we have wild chemistry, yet the anxiety persisits. My ex b/f and I had a much more peaceful relationship but there was no chemistry and passion. Also the MM is 20 years older than me, yikes! Not sure what to do. Dump both men and be alone. If you go back with the MM all you'll be is his OW. That's what he wants, someone who will make him feel good, on his terms...What if you fall deeper inlove and want to marry him? DO you believe he'll divorce his wife (who is paying ALL his bills) to be with you? Think think and think some more. You're selling yourself short BIG TIME if you stay with him.
GreenEyedLady Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 20 years older than you. Living with a friend. His wife does all bills and house and things. Think about it. Is this really what you want? A man this age who is not capable of taking care of himself that he lives with a friend and his wife gives him his allowance. I have to say, I agree with you on this...
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