forreasonsunknown Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 i can't let go, it's at the point where im getting sick about it. i love her im sure of it, and u dont give up on the one u love. my luck also if i did find someone else, she would come around at the wrong time. she hung out with him last night and i just fear the worst. how am i supposed to deal?
RocketMan2 Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 No Contact mate Honestly I read all the posts about it and never really gave it much credit until i noticed it actually works! Get rid of everything that reminds you of her, put it in a box and chuck it in the attic or something. Give her phone number to a mate you trust, and then delete it. Tell him not to give it you back unless its an emergency or youre over it. It does get better. Have a bloody good cry about it mate, sit with a friend you can talk to and just bawl it out. You'll feel alot better afterwards. You have to accept that youre going to feel like this for a while. Once you can do that you can allow it to happen without it bothering you as well. It sounds strange but thats whats happening with me. Flirting helps. I know it feels like you dont want to at the moment, but i went out and got a number last night, cheered me up a bit Hang in there mate. Find something to do or spend your time with good company. I took my mates for granted, but they've really been there for me and been the best mates in the world and I love them for it. That cheers you up to, to know that there are people that care about you
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