PoshPrincess Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Just mentioned 'dreams' on someone else's thread and have decided to start a new one as I'm interested to see if you guys dream about your MM/MW, what do you dream, how often, etc....... When I was seeing MM I dreamed about him from time to time and I know he dreamed about me too. Since we split I have dreamed about him more regularly, especially since I have been with my new BF for some reason. I dream various things; the other week I dreamed that his son and I were in touch (I've never met his son) and he confided in me that his Dad was really unhappy without me; I dreamed about MM and his W and that I was in the same room as them, panicking that she would know who I was; then I dreamed that I bumped into him after texting to say that I still loved him but that we just had a general chat and never actually discussed our true feelings. All V weird! It's kind of comforting dreaming about him but unnerving all at the same time as I'd finally got to the stage where he wasn't my first thought when I woke up in the morning! Of course, when I dream about him it gets me thinking about him more than usual and that is when I get tempted to make contact again.
magichands Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Of course, when I dream about him it gets me thinking about him more than usual and that is when I get tempted to make contact again. Hmmm. Maybe you should try to stop yourself. "Kill the mood," so to speak. I can't speak for everyone here, but I have always wanted to get off with the LoveShack bunny. Make that a threesome.
Romeo Must Die Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 I had one dream and in this dream Romeo was coming over to tell me he was getting married to his OW. Then he woke me up by knocking on the door (I was asleep on the couch) and he was just bringing the kids home from visitation. He wasnt allowed to just come in (lol I had good reasons) so I went to the door and said "whatdaya want?" and he said I gotta talk to you and it wasnt to tell me he was getting married, he said he wanted me back, but I'll never forget that dream as long as I live.
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 He just appears in my dreams as part of them...
PollyPocket Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 This makes me Sick:sick: :sick: . Dream about them? Dont dream look at the reality your living with? Wake up.
magichands Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Dont dream look at the reality your living with? PollyPocket has a point. I know I have an unhealthy obsession with this, but maybe it's time to dream about them taking a huge dump. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=1049230#post1049230
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 This makes me Sick:sick: :sick: . Dream about them? Dont dream look at the reality your living with? Wake up. Polly I don't mean this harshly, but maybe you should take your own advice...
PollyPocket Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 The OW must have a delusional personality disorder. What part of MARRIED appears in their dream?
Author PoshPrincess Posted January 15, 2007 Author Posted January 15, 2007 This makes me Sick:sick: :sick: . Dream about them? Dont dream look at the reality your living with? Wake up. This was only meant as a lighthearted thread! I DID look at the reality and I got out (although maybe not emotionally yet, but I'm working on it!) If only we could help our dreams. I'm sure if we could then RomeoMustDie wouldn't have been dreaming about her H and his OW marrying each other! I think we all know the reality, and that can be anything depending on one's own personal sitch, but it's still hard to deal with nonetheless.
magichands Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Polly I don't mean this harshly, but maybe you should take your own advice... I tried that once. Never again.
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 I tried that once. Never again. Didn't work?
magichands Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Didn't work? Eventually I was able to forgive myself. I think I might have misunderstood exactly what I was trying to say. To myself, that is.
PollyPocket Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Let me think OW must dream of being the W. Do you dream that you will one day find a OW one day becoming your nightmare?
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Eventually I was able to forgive myself. I think I might have misunderstood exactly what I was trying to say. To myself, that is.
sadbuttrue Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 polly you seem very bitter. i dont know why you would want to be on this site. i do not see myself as his W in my dreams. i have dreamt about him, and his W was there, and i could never get close enough to him. it was strangely like reality i guess.
PollyPocket Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Oh lets see why I am bitter. MANY REASONS. As for wanting to be here. I happened just to find this site. And read so much about the OW. None of which seems to be happy. I have wonder if this is a need to self punish yourselves. Something that happened in their lives that they feel they need to torture themselves and others. Now in dreams. polly you seem very bitter. i dont know why you would want to be on this site. i do not see myself as his W in my dreams. i have dreamt about him, and his W was there, and i could never get close enough to him. it was strangely like reality i guess.
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Let me think OW must dream of being the W. Do you dream that you will one day find a OW one day becoming your nightmare? I do not want to be a W anytime soon, maybe never...BTDT... And Polly, mine was an OM...in REAL life...
bonehead Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 I dream of a house full of kids, dogs cats hamsters. question is, where would I LIVE?? House would be over ran. thank god for alarm clock and short sleep cycles.
sadbuttrue Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 polly i am not wanting to torture myself or others. there is pain in these types of R, we(i feel most of us OW fall into this category) did not search out MM to be in love with. not all of the OW are unhappy in their situations.
PollyPocket Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 oh I see so much happiness in the OW life. Just overflowing with it:lmao:
sadbuttrue Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Little DREAMS for Little people why would you call us little people polly?
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Little dreams so little self esteem. Turn that around on yourself...
NearlyThere Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 oh I see so much happiness in the OW life. Just overflowing with it:lmao: You know I read your thread on the infideity site in which you stated to everyone you were told you were not welcome on here which was basically a complete lie. However I still gave you the benefit of the doubt as you seemed to be suffereing. I even said to some of the OW on her to give you a chance and to forget your previous slagging us of us all. However you persist in coming on here, having a dig, then proceeding to go onto the infidelity site saying we are rubbing your nose in your pain. The people on the infidelity site have said its best you dont come on here, and I have to say if you have nothing of any use or help to say, which you dont seem to, then do keep away.
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