AugustHeart Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 I would like to know if anyone has been in this situation and what did they do. I am a mother of a 18mos old son. I got pregnant on accident but love him very much. The father after 7mos. of pregnancy quit calling-he lived 2 hours away, we were together for a year and I was willing to work things out for the baby. He emailed me during my 8th mos of pregnancy and said that he wanted to be friends forever and wanted to be in his sons life but was not ready for marriage or a relationship. He never contacted me again until 3 days before I had my son. He was there when my son was born but was in a rush to get home I knew then that he had someone else. Three mos. after I had my son he got the other girl pregnant and married her. All I want is my son so I changed my number, I have never filed for child support, he started emailing me and his mother started writing my letters wanting to know why I changed my number. This story is so long I am leaving everything else out. The dad has never paid regular child support and says that he has a family too, that he needs to take of and neglects my son. I guess his whole family has forgotten about my son the saying out of sight out of mind. I don't want to have anything to do with him or his family but he won't leave us alone. I feel bad for it but I will never call, email or send pictures of my son to him or his family. When I do talk about child support he says that he wants part custody of my son but when I don't mention it he don't ask to see him. He has only seen my son 4 times in his life. I was wanting to know if anyone can tell me what direction to take. When I am more financially stable I would like to move, change my number and never talk to him or his family again. I've been praying but this stresses me out so bad. The dad cries sometimes when he calls and makes me feel even worse. He lives 4 states away, and blames me for him not being able to see him but he never cared when we did live in the same state. The dad wanted me and my son to live off of welfare because he didn't want to help me pay for dr appointments while I was pregnant so I moved 3 mos. after I had my son because I was offered a better job/medical benefits in the state I live in now. I want to see what someone says. My friends and family would like to have his head on a platter. I recently seen his my space page and it says that he is single and loves kids but does not want any and he last logged on in December of 2006. I guess he is still trying to find someone. Did anyone have a problem like this :(and what did they do?
Author AugustHeart Posted January 15, 2007 Author Posted January 15, 2007 I know it is a lot to take in there is alot more to this story I was trying to make it short. I guess I would have to write a novel to get it all out.
bluechocolate Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t109759/
D-Lish Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 Am I reading it right that your ex got you pregnant, then got someone else pregnant, married her, and now isn't with her anymore?
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