Firefighter689 Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 So after a really bad break up.... I mean I really bad break up.. Look at my other thread to see that... But now she wants time.... Below are the the emails.... She writes..... I'm sorry about all this. I truely believe you. I think it was just someone trying to mess with you or me. Could have just been someone trying to break us up, cause I guess this "happened" when we were still together. Please just try to forget about it. I know that you won't, but please just try to. I'm trying to forget about this invasion of our privacy. I really do believe you. I hope you're doing ok. I'm tired of all these stupid fights. please do not try to contact me. when i feel ready to talk, i'll let you know. I'm sorry, I hope you'll be ok. I pray for you all the time. She writes..... I've told you a thousand times I believe you. I don't know how else to say it to make you believe me, but I guess that's your problem now. I've dropped this, and I hope you can do the same. I blocked you on facebook because it seems like every time we talk, something like this always happens. I'm just trying to avoid fights. Now please respect my decision and just give me some space. Neither of us needs more stress in our lives. I write..... Ok if give you the space that you want can things can cool off. Could we talk again sometime or are you just throwing me out of your life for good? She writes... sure,just give me some time. Stupid me writes back..... ok im trying to do that? I just have one more question I hope you can answer so I just not left here..... What do you need time for? You never want to date me again so whats the time for I guess Im confused about that? I hope you can write me something back to help me answer that one. Just so you know i cant fight with you anymore im so tired of hurting you and me. Have not heard anything yet.... Whats with the time thing she says she can never see me as a boyfriend........ so what do you need time with.... you have already made up your mind....
Lostandfound Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 Letting you down gently so as to not hurt your feelings, or she is thinking of someone else and wants to see how that develops before closing the door for good
Author Firefighter689 Posted January 14, 2007 Author Posted January 14, 2007 She wrote back....... I really want to be able to be friends with you, but I can't right now. I plainly don't want to be friends right now, but I know after some time, we can try to be friends. Just not right now. That's what the space is for. I write back..... I dont see why after everything i have done you want to be friends with me? You cant just be friends with someone you still have feelings for... im i know you dont have feelings for me, because of all of this...... I guess I just dont feel like i have anything to offer you anymore.... So why do you really want to be friends with me?
Author Firefighter689 Posted January 14, 2007 Author Posted January 14, 2007 She writes.... Well I thought you wanted to be friends, so I was going to make an effort after I had some time to cool off. If you don't want to be friends, that's fine with me. I write...... I dont know if I can be friends with someone I still having feelings for I think I will just get hurt to much.... Like I said I have nothing really to offer you anymore... you dont like me at all and I have to undertand that.... I made to many mistakes..... To many people have lost total respect for me. Just wish a week ago I could have handled things differently because mabye something could have worked out better.... I dont know... Just wish I would have taken the time to honestly listen to you.... I will miss the great times we had together to bad it had to be such a bad ending..
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