Guest Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 A few Ows questioning why a W stays in the M after D Day... Is this because it spoils the OWs plans? I mean, what chance does an OW have if D Day arrives and the married couple STILL stay together? There seems to be an expectation (or hope) that the W will end the marriage, or agree to walk away from her life quietly, when the A is exposed. In my experience, in most cases, the D Day arrives, and the A is ended or the OW put on ice for a while. Of course, a lucky few might actually end up with the MM. I guess thats what keeps the rest going.... I have been the cheater (violent ex, my lover helped me to leave, I owe him a great deal) the OW (my lover was also married, but their marriage ended before she even knew about me, it really was coming to an end between them, he wasnt a cake eater) and the BS.
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