sitti Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 Okay.. this is the first time I tried to ask advice online.. Im sounding so desperate and I guess I am and I want to get advice from other people. So here I go Well to start I have been seening this girl for some time now. About 5 months, and I think were just doing fine then. I met her during a varsity try-out and at start we were just friends. I noticed that she always looked tired every time I saw her at the start of the try-out, so one day I asked her why does she look so tired every time she goes to our gym. And there she opened up and we clicked right away. after a few months I finally asked her if I could court her and she was exited and said yes.. (she is those girls that are very traditional; those kinds of girls that you should ask if you could court them or be their boyfriends) well anways, after a few dates.. I asked her if she feels the same with me and she said that what we have is very mutual. And I was very happy! i sometimes surprise her by bring lunch after her class since her class is just after lunch time. And I try to be very sweet to her. But im having a very hard time, being traditional she expects me to make the 1st moves and true to my expectations, she never made the 1st initiation to contact me or text me via mobile just to ask if how im doing.. NOTHING!! Its always me.. I duno if im being very low but I think after 5 months of mutual understanding I think she would atleast be more initiative. Just recently im being very open with my feelings and she doesnt SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT!! I mean I tell her that I miss her but RECENLTY she just ignores what im saying and doesn’t reply, maybe im being to open?? Or being to fast?? My friends told me to relax.. 5 months is not that long but I should rush into things just yet.. yes I agree but may be it would give the wrong impression to my girl.. she might get the message of “just friends” I really don’t know… I try making things more exited by giving her gifts for no reason at all.. I just say that I was thinking about her and decided to buy a gift for her.. but recently she told me “why do I keep giving her stuff toys??... its like your giving me 3 jackets to wear” I don’t get it.. I mean im still courting her.. what wrong wid stuff toys?? She never said anything about hating stuff toys!! And just recently we are fighting a lot (still in courting stage) for the simplest thing, well I think im being very shallow cause im thinking so much… I keep thinking that she does’nt want me anymore and i told her whats happening to me and she said that “your thinking too much” and I agree but she’s is becoming abit less concern about me… and im being very available to her.. maybe that’s my problem?? Being to “available”?? Well I hope I didn’t bore you reading this LONG story and i think i just embarrassed myself in cyberspace!!! But i dont care what you guys think.. just tell me whats wrong with me, that’s my story.. any advice??
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