Guest Posted January 13, 2007 Posted January 13, 2007 I am so tired of crying over my ex. I am trying my nest to remain with NC but nstead of getting better its making it harder every day not to think about him. Its been 1.5month now since the breakup and I can't stop thinking about him. Lately I have been having alot of dreams about him and wake up really early in the morning because of that. Someone please tell me what to do or how long this will last.
jusified Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 well the question is what happened with your ex? Sometimes you realise they did not treat you with respect, care and love. Some times you realise they don't deserve someone as great as you and them letting you go is the best thing to happen to you. But obviously thats not happening in your case, but if you tell everyone a little bit about your situation I'm sure we can all help. If you just want to deal with the feelings then I sugeest you just take it all in, think about what happened in the relationship and learn from it and decided what is best that you want to do.
Tormented Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 like Justified pointed out, guest, it would be helpful if you provided us with a little more detail as to what happened in your relationship that brought the breakup about. Depending upon the circumstances, and what was said or done, dictates how long it may take you to completely heal. Was there any cheating involved? Lying, betrayal, abuse, disrespect? Are you still in contact with your ex, or have you both gone into NC? Actually, 1.5 months isn't that long and it's quite normal to feel the way you do in this short of time after the breakup. But I know how long time can seem when you're in pain. ~T~
Tartanxxxkiss Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 hey sweetness i always thought love was easy untill i met matt. he was the love of my life. everything went more wrong than any one can believe. and i dont think i have ever felt so much pain in my life. and the only way u know when someone has been through the same thing is when theyve described it. and u have. it ****ing hurts like hell i know. i didnt eat for so long, and i remember sleeping then waking up feeling ok, then a few seconds later my world fell down when i remembered what had happened. the thing is allll your friends and people say, it will pass i promise ull feel better blah blah. but all u can feel is this wrench in your gut. well im going to repeat it!!! it does go away. one day you'll be out doing something normal like shopping and ull go, oh my god i didnt think about so and so today. and youll smile. it took me about... three months to get there but its different for everyone. u see i was in london, and when i moved back to where id had the relationship with him a few memories did jump back and bite. but what u must always keep in your heart is that it hurts so much because it was true, and u should treasure that. some people never get that in there whole lives. trust someone who has died inside once like u. it will get better. treasure it for what it was, and then move on and start treasuring you for who you are xxx
hrtbroken99 Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 he broke up with me because we were really far apart (ldr, college, life choices) I didnt want to end it but I knew that he wanted someone closer. No I have not contacted him, and he has no contacted me. We never decided on the NC thing I just chose to do it to help myself grieve. I just want to get out of this crying cycle of emotions
cuddles4u Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 time will eventually help you to move on stick with the NC
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