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He lives in Orange County, plus he's only eighteen and he's addictd to porn, so his whole worldview is skewed.

Stop betraying confidences. Are you his friend for the sole reason of getting access to his collection?

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I wish there were more girls like that around here. Just one would do. Brain-dead, with high-powered suction.

 

:laugh:

No you don't.

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i think if LINDYA lived here in the States she'd probably think differently....here, its all about the "coolness" factor.

I don't know. I used to own that book,too. The day I threw it away was the day I vowed to just be myself. I could care less what any guy thinks of me now. Ever since, guys I date cling to me. Well, the needy ones do. :laugh: It is about attitude...not necessarily a bitchy attitude though.

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Cool. Here's one now. Hey there, jennifer.

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Cool. Here's one now. Hey there, jennifer.

 

and not a moment too soon.:laugh::rolleyes:

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Ever since, guys I date cling to me.

Sticky situation. Still, it keeps you fresh.

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and not a moment too soon.:laugh::rolleyes:

 

 

too funny!

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Sticky situation. Still, it keeps you fresh.

well, for at least 12 hours.

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well, for at least 12 hours.

I'm lucky to last 12 minutes. Use it, or lose it - that's me.

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I was kidding.

Great. I think you have a point about feisty personalities... joking or not. Some feisty/passionate folks are quiet lovable... at least if they aren't tearing in to YOU or you don't have to _live_ with them. But some guys like these feisty /passionate gals and form LTRs with them. I assume these gals aren't always bad and must have good sides also. FWIW the one's I have known well have had VERY good sides.

 

I don't think there's any place for hate in a relationship. Such a wasteful emotion.

Okay. I'm not sure you'd call it "hate", but there are times partners are b**chy. (I've never known a gal that wasn't b**chy at times. I do think of that as a short bout of hate.) I doubt any guy likes that, nevertheless guys stick around. Do you agree?

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Great. I think you have a point about feisty personalities... joking or not. Some feisty/passionate folks are quiet lovable... at least if they aren't tearing in to YOU or you don't have to _live_ with them. But some guys like these feisty /passionate gals and form LTRs with them. I assume these gals aren't always bad and must have good sides also. FWIW the one's I have known well have had VERY good sides.

 

Feisty and passionate women are good. Feisty and passionate does not equal bitchy. If the OP is referring to feisty and passionate women as bitches, then he has no idea what he is referring to. IMO, the bitchy women are those, like I mentioned on this thread already, the type that are never happy and are controlling.

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IN regards to what 'vermillion' and 'trulycute' stated.. i totally agree. THIS book just enhanced what i already knew and have been through!

From expirience, i think that being a bitch is not truly a negative thing. being a bitch just means that you are guarding yourself in some form. A guy's definition of a "bitch" is someone who is this mean, serious, evil, concieted, full-of-herself, cold, annoying, egotistical ass. BUT being a bitch just means that we are strong and independent.

 

We do not need a guy to cling on to all the time, nor feel as though a guy can make us happy and free us from our times of lonliness...it is true and obvious that evryone loves a challenge...but don't let that challenge go too far. there is a difference from pusing them away and making them feel they have a chance if they try harder. as for keeping them interested:: Guys or anyone new u meet in general; less information as possible keeps them wanting more! i'm not saying stay quiet, but the best thing to do is let them pour their wholee life out to you..and you just sit there and listen and ask questions..

 

throw in sum comments about urself, but keep it vaugue and sweet.. never give too much personal information just yet..later on the guy will feel this sensation that he really liked hanging out with you.. but yet does not know that much about you. it will make him wonder. Never be too busy for him, but show that you do have a life; but the "short" times spent with him on the phone or being out should be the greatest, so he can want more. BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY > have a sense of humor. a bitch is rather snotty.. but making a guy laugh is the key to hold him in......

 

ANY COMMENTS OR QUESTIONS???

 

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i think if LINDYA lived here in the States she'd probably think differently....here, its all about the "coolness" factor.

 

Everywhere it's about the coolness factor, but people and cultures vary in their concept of coolness. There's never going to be any one person or belief system that's universally considered to be cool.

 

For some people it's all about fitting in, for others it's exactly the opposite. Don't forget, I was brought up in a country where there's a grand tradition of being emotionally detached and keeping a stiff upper lip. Doesn't mean I buy into that as an admirable or cool way to be. Actually, I do think it's good insofar as people here tend to be relatively calm and unpanicky about terrorist alerts. It's a less good thing if it's so extreme that it results in people failing to express themselves honestly in relationships.

 

Some people are so shamed by any expression of emotion that they just blank out their own (and other people's) emotions to avoid dealing with them. What's to admire about that? Why would any intelligent adult be impressed by a partner who employs simplistic and insensitive playground politics in a relationship instead of facing up to, and dealing honestly with, the complexities and realities of relationships, the human condition and life in general?

 

These books aren't about being cool, Pornmale. They're about indulging people who are utterly desperate to believe that they really can obtain ominpotency in relationships by reading about how to scam and manipulate people instead of taking the enormous risk of just being themselves - and dealing with the fact that some people might not consider who they really are to be quite good enough.

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Don't forget, I was brought up in a country where there's a grand tradition of being emotionally detached and keeping a stiff upper lip. Doesn't mean I buy into that as an admirable or cool way to be. Actually, I do think it's good insofar as people here tend to be relatively calm and unpanicky about terrorist alerts.

Hey, I'll take that any day over the dramatic emotionality of the average American. All americans do is run around yelling "Oh my God, Oh my God...", its totally rediculous. They are so funny.

 

The key is to know when to be less emotional and when to be more.

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