Guest Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 I met this girl that i thought was kind of pretty. After we met she started to like me. And i knew she liked me because everyone started to tell me, but i didnt like her back. 2 years went by and she still likes me. But a year later when we are in 8th grade she stopped. Then for some reason i am totally in to her know. i cant stop thinking about her. So i started to call her and we flirt for more than 3 hours on the phone every night. but when we go to school the next morning, she acts like we are just friends and doesnt show that much interst in me anymore. But sometimes we flirt in school alot. I think she tries and gets me jealous with talking with this other boy in front of me that she knew for years. and the thing is, its working. i dont show it though. then i try to get her jealous with this girl that likes me and it seems to work, cause then she'll come over and start to like brake us up from each other then starts talking and flirting with me again. So a couple of nights later, i call her and tell her how i ralley feel about her. and she teals me she doesnt like me anymore, amd it sounds like she means it. but you should see the way we flirt with each other. and i still thinks she has some feelings for me. i cant stop thinking about her. and i know shes not using me because ever since i met her, she was always the nicest girl to everyone, and never talked behined no one's back, even people that are not friends with her thinks she is really nice. How do i get her to love me again?
cane0913 Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 this is the person who made this story, i finally became a member. please reply
DuRaS27 Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 I think the short answer is this: you can't GET anyone to like you again. They have to decide that on their own. Best piece of advice: You aren't going to get her to like her by telling her your true feelings. Your best bet is to play 'hard to get'. Basically it means acting like you don't really like her. However, since she already knows your feelings, this act probably won't work anymore. Go to school dances, flirt with other girls, and try to forget about this girl for now. Chances are, if she liked you before she'll like you again one day--especially when she sees that you aren't paying as much attention to her anymore. It's human nature to want what you can't have--especially for young girls.
emmaUK Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 she may like you and just be playing games or she may not really like you in that way but just enjoy the attention you are giving her. stop ringing her and dont answer her calls and keep your distance from her when you see her at achool..... give it a few weeks of this and if she doesnt come running to you then you know she really isnt interested i think thats the only way you will find out
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