musiclvr15 Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 I like this guy. The problem is he is my best guy friend. I want t ask him out but if i do it will ruin our friendship. What should I do?
climbergirl Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Do you have any inclination of the way he feels about you? Getting any vibes from him?
LN99 Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Do you think he feels the same? It could be that he does but doesn't want to act on it in fear of ruining your friendship. So, basically he could be feeling the same as you right now. Does he give you any signs that he is interested in more? Also, is he seeing someone right now? If he is, I suggest you don't do anything right now. If he isn't, I would just subtly hint around to see if he likes anyone, or if he likes you. Its worth a shot right? Otherwise you might miss your opportunity when another girl snatches him up.
Quinch Posted January 13, 2007 Posted January 13, 2007 I should talk to him and let him know how you feel. He may feel the same way about you but he may not. If he's your friend then he will listen and I'm sure he will at least understand because its very common in boy/girl friendships for this subject to arise sooner or later. If he doesn't return your affection then he will at least appreciate your honesty.
Guest Posted January 13, 2007 Posted January 13, 2007 I DO BELIEVE ALL GREAT LOVE STORIES BEGIN WITH FRIENDSHIP THAT'S THE FOUNDATION AND I JUST FOUND OUT MY GF HAS SAVED $5500 WOW - WICKED TOUGH THING TO DO AS FOR MOVING INTO AN APARTMENT - FORGET THAT - I HAVE A FRIEND THAT NEEDS A ROOMIE AND U COULD LIVE HER FREAKING HOUSE AND JUST CHILLAX AND FOCUS ON EDUCATION ANYHOOOOOOOOOOO, 15 MORE MINUTES THEN I MUST FLY hmmmmmmmm, i was going drop something off at my gf's place but i think she's staying with the family this weekend damn decisions decisions
Yamaha Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 Sooner or later you will want to know how he feels about you. When you have feelings for someone you can hold it in for a time but it will come out even if you don't want it to. I would talk to him and tell him that you like him. Taking a chance requires risk but many things worth having requires you to put yourself out there.
Guest Posted January 27, 2007 Posted January 27, 2007 So what happened? Did you end up confessing your feelings, or holding back? If you opened up, what was the result? Keep us posted...
Lova Posted January 28, 2007 Posted January 28, 2007 tell him u like him up strat dont keep ur feelins bottled up
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