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My ex-fiance left me for someone else about 6 months. Not a fun time. Inspite of her infidelity, I do accept some blame for the relationship not working. This was our second time in an exclusive relationship.

 

After the breakup, we only had communication twice. Normally, these conversations were about property (we lived together, she has 2 kids). More often than not, however, these communication led to further fighting and attempts to hurt the other.

 

I initiated strict no-contact. It was rough at first (sometimes, it still is). Like Willie said, she was always on my mind. But I ended up doing OK. Lost alot of weight and my business is going excellent.

 

Self improvement was the only thing keeping me going. During this No Contact period, I received information she was having relations with at least 4 men. In fact, one of these individuals, a customer of hers at work, took her on a 4 day trip to Vegas about 5 weeks after we broke. This individual was also helped her purchase a very expensive car. She did not know this individual very well. This relationship, to the best of my understanding was not exclusive, as she had many other "friends." Needless to say, running a few laps around the block was the only thing keeping me sane.

 

But I suck it up and move on. Now she has made contact. It appears that for some reason, she would like to re-enter my life. To be honest, I always had a feeling this day would come. In fact, in my mind, I had already prepared for such a communication. She wont say it, but she is impressed with the self improvements made. I quit smoking and lost about 50 pounds. This was to be my chance for some payback. A chance to tell her to hit the road.

 

But of course, when someone you love who is one of the most beautiful visions you have ever laid eyes on, things get a bit tricky. I can't seem to let go of her dating or doing whatever with all these different men. I really took that to mean she didnt love me. Thats what I would like feedback on. How could someone have sex with other people and still be in love with someone else. It just doesnt make sense to me. I admit, when we were together, I pushed her away and she was not all at fault. However, I just dont agree with her behavior after we seperated.

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