oreo_monkey Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 ok.well i have a girlfriend named brianna and i really do like her alot, but then there is lourdes (one of her friends that use to be her bestfriend until i kind of ruined things). well about 8 months ago i met brianna and we started going out. then about two months later i met lourdes, and i really didnt think anything of her other that she was very attractive. Later on i started talking to lourdes as friends, and i guess she likes me. well its weird because im still with brianna, but then lourdes is always flirting with me and i know i shouldnt flirt back, but its like i want to but i dont want to. because lourdes is like really hot. The first time brianna found out that me and lou would talk was because i would text lou, and lou showed brianna everything. i was screwed, i felt bad, but lou made it seem like it was all my fault and i was the one that was being a ass. then me and brianna argued and everything , broke up, she gave me another chance, then yeah i stopped talking to lou. and all of a sudden lou started talking to me again, and she says she loves me and all sorts of stuff. im a guy so i started talking to her again, and i finally felt guilty because i had promised bri i wouldnt talk to her, so i told brianna everything, (because supposably my friends say im whooped on her) so i told her about how i broke her promise again and everything , we broke up or whatever, and she bearly gave me another chance, and right now i really dont talk to lourdes, she talks to me, and its like she does it on purpose to try and make her ex friend mad, and i hate that i lost bri's trust because for everything she brings up lou. i dont even want to flirt or do anything with lourdes, but i guess its the way she talks to me and the fact that shes attractive . oh but the whole um advice i need is if i should just plain out stop talking to lourdes, or what? i dont know.
precious99 Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Yes of course you should stop talking to her!! You never should have done it in the first place. im a guy so i started talking to her again And being a guy is not an excuse for the way you have been treating your girlfriend! How old are you all anyways? If you continue in this situation there will be nothing but hurt and heartbreak.
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