Nb708 Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 kinda long story but here goes so thers this girl i go to school with that ive liked for the past 2 years or so. i think she definetly liked me too, but before it could go anywhere, i got really mad at her cause i thought she was just using me to get stuff and playin me like an idiot so i rejected her fer like 2 or 3 months. during this time another girl caught my attention and we started buildin up a pretty good relationship. i thought i might have feelings for her, but she moved out of state. we continued to talk on the phone and stayed friends, but i soon saw what i had been missing this whole time and realized i was still crazy about the girl that i first liked. well it just so happened that this was right at the start of summer break and i was unable to express any of my feelings or even see the girl i originally loved for 3 months. well the school year started about 4 months ago and nothing has picked up since then. we're still good friends and we talk like every day, but the relationship just isnt what it used to be. also i think she has started to like another guy. whenever she talks about him to one of her friends when im around, she covers her mouth and whispers maybe so that i cant hear he or because its a complete secret, but i think i might know who the guy is. however i know the new guy older that she likes has no feelings to her whatsoever. maybe she just has a simple crush. regardless im not sensing any of her old feeling back towards me like i used to. the main problem is that i never expressed my feelings to her before and doubted the fact the she really did have feel the same way. neither of us have ever been in a relationship so maybe we just didnt no how to or what to look for. but now the i look at the way she is now, it seems to me that she had feelings for me and maybe i just doubeted myself too much. but now it seems like all of those old feelings she ever had are gone. it kills me to know that when i rejected her completly, she was still trying to get my attention, but now that im sure i have feelings for her, it seems like she feels we're just friends. can i still win her back? i dont wanna wait for fear that i may have already waited too long and jeaporadized what we could have had. what shound i do?
Guest Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 gawd, when u find out please tell me. i have no idea anymore. how do u know if they don't tell u? i want this woman so much and i can do things right this time. have i taken too long? i keep thinking she hates me and has found someone better but i keep believing we will make it - is this all in my head? everytime i think i am getting the right signals i come home to an empty house - i wish i knew what she wanted - or that she would say something to me? that's not being weak or needy, its wanting respect and asking politely if she wants me or not - is that asking too much?
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