cjnora29 Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Please help me anyone out there, I am truly sorry for being to introduce myself in such a way that I am in need..but please the advice I need would be for tomorrow, I am confused and I really need help. I'm 21 years old, my girlfriend and I, we were only for about 2 weeks. The first week was amazing, but then it ends after that. It took me a month courting her and based on the events that happened courting her and my experience it felt like magic, she is the one. I really loved her. I am sorry if my post is like this, disoriented and everything. We were happy with each other but ever since this year everything is fading. She's not feeling it anymore and her love for me is fading. I knew she is getting tired perhaps she is also sick of me. Its my fault anyway because since we've been together I was asking her out like everyday and now she's getting sick of me. It is like the end of a very beautiful beginning, I am planning to break up with her tomorrow, I already told her i need to see her tomorrow..She's already getting tired of seeing me since we see each other in class everyday. Again I am really sorry for such a post and for the rush but your replies maybe would help me on what to do. I know that she knows I trully love her so much, and I also know that her love for me is like 60% out of 100% or just halfly love me right now unlike before. Things aren't getting any sweeter..she use to tell me even in text messages those 3 words before she sleep but now it and i felt it. I confronted her already the other day that if she is not happy with me, its ok with me if she decides to break up with me and I also asked her again if she still loves me and she says yes i love you. But now everything comes to conclusion that i think she is just waiting or maybe she is just wanting to keep me for a reason. I know for the fact that she is already confused with our relationship. She is my first serious girlfriend and I intend it to be also my last. My heart aches thinking of the fact why is she not breaking up with me..does she want me to be the one to break up with her. I already confronted her twice about our relationship, that if she is not happy or anything she could leave me if she wants. But now thats it everyday i kept thinking about her and how our love is falling, my heart seriously is in bad condition and its hard for me. I am breaking up with her tomorrow although some part of me still wants this relationship to continue hoping that it can still be fixed. I thank everyone who spares some time reading this and help me.
Cub Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Wow, quick relationship. It doesn't sound like you too were together long enough for it to really be love, which would also explain why she got tired of the relationship so quickly. I do so dislike how everyone is obsessed with throwing that word around these days without knowing it's true meaning. as she is your first gf, I can understand why you are so upset but it's going to be alright, really. Just break up with her and move on, you'll find another girl and you might even really fall in love and with someone who is in love with you. Besides, you've got plenty of time to find your last girlfriend and the chances of her being the first one you come into a relationship with...yeaaa, not so good.
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