Guest Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 you have a great time with a member of the opposite sex. playing, wrestling, exchanging the odd bruise, waterfights etc. i know it all easily seen as friendship and nothing but. i wanna know if its pointing to 2 people on the verge of kissing the face off each other. is there more to horseplay? thanks, vinny.
Blue Phoenix Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 well you can take it a few diffrent ways I think.I mean it depends on the age of the people involved obvisely. It can and it cant I know from personal experance when I was younger. I had a guy friend that kept getting into play fights with me. I later found out that yea he had a crush on me. But then again Ive play fighted with other people in my life and that was it good old horseing around. So you kinda have to look at the hole pic. Do they act odd around you like nervous or anything before you play fight or do they give you any hints they like you?
Lostgurl Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 My bf and i were like this year's before we got together, but there was ALWAYS an attraction between us. We couldn't really do anything about it back then because of the age difference and my brothers (his friends) probably would have killed him . We still "horseplay" all the time, it's a big part of what we do. We are still great friends that do all the friendly stuff like giving eachother battle bruises and call eachother playful names, yet now we plan to grow old together . So i guess my point is, yes. If two friends of the opposite sex are horse playing, my guess is that there is some physical need to "touch" one another and can indeed lead to more than just horseplay.
Guest Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 My bf and i were like this year's before we got together, but there was ALWAYS an attraction between us. We couldn't really do anything about it back then because of the age difference and my brothers (his friends) probably would have killed him . We still "horseplay" all the time, it's a big part of what we do. We are still great friends that do all the friendly stuff like giving eachother battle bruises and call eachother playful names, yet now we plan to grow old together . So i guess my point is, yes. If two friends of the opposite sex are horse playing, my guess is that there is some physical need to "touch" one another and can indeed lead to more than just horseplay. wel,, its weird. shes 24 and im 34. she enjoys my company a whole lot more than she would admit. she once told a friend that "i was a friend and thats all he will ever be.". ok, no problem, so why then, do you take all my pampering, take the time to record my every move and remember everything i said on demand, stare at my mouth when we talk, we go out of our way to buy things for each other. let me give you huge hugs and kiss you on the head, let me massage you, smile when i predict that she needs a coffee, theres like a whole lot more to it with our interaction. its like as if we are already a couple, ya know?
norajane Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 wel,, its weird. shes 24 and im 34. she enjoys my company a whole lot more than she would admit. she once told a friend that "i was a friend and thats all he will ever be.". ok, no problem, so why then, do you take all my pampering, take the time to record my every move and remember everything i said on demand, stare at my mouth when we talk, we go out of our way to buy things for each other. let me give you huge hugs and kiss you on the head, let me massage you, smile when i predict that she needs a coffee, theres like a whole lot more to it with our interaction. its like as if we are already a couple, ya know? Who wouldn't like being pampered?? She likes that you treat her special - it makes her feel good. You stroke her ego! Does she date other people? Does she talk about other men? If she does, that's your answer. Regardless of what she thinks of you, she would rather hang out with you while dating other people.
Green Posted January 17, 2007 Posted January 17, 2007 Next time your horseinf around grab her but or something, then take it to the next level plant a kiss on her, if your lucky and you real have some heat of the moment thing going who knows what could happen long make out, grinding, maybe even s....
Lostgurl Posted January 18, 2007 Posted January 18, 2007 wel,, its weird. shes 24 and im 34. she enjoys my company a whole lot more than she would admit. she once told a friend that "i was a friend and thats all he will ever be.". ok, no problem, so why then, do you take all my pampering, take the time to record my every move and remember everything i said on demand, stare at my mouth when we talk, we go out of our way to buy things for each other. let me give you huge hugs and kiss you on the head, let me massage you, smile when i predict that she needs a coffee, theres like a whole lot more to it with our interaction. its like as if we are already a couple, ya know? Yeah that's sure how it seems! You have just described my relationship down to a T right now ! Even the age difference is almost the same. Except there's more intimacy of course, and the fact that we are LD for a set amount of time now. I say that you talk to her about how you feel, or just go for it and kiss her in one of your battle matches. Depending how it turns out, you can THEN talk to her indepth about your feelilngs towards her.
Blue Phoenix Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 --"she once told a friend that "i was a friend and thats all he will ever be"-- Well thats kinda cut and dry to me. I think from what you are saying she sees you as her best friend. Altho I had a best friend guy and we wernt THAT close. There was no long hugging or kissing going on at all. I do agree with the op here dose she talk about other guys around you?? or to you in a I need advice way?? Cuz if she dose then thats a big sighn and renforcement that your her best buddy. Ide honestly think thats what she sees you as but if you are confused. Then by all means talk to her about it. Also it sounds like you might have feelings for her of your own. If thats the case then you need to decide if you want to pursue them. Sounds like you might if your here asking for advice on weither or not she likes you..
Raleuse Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 she enjoys my company a whole lot more than she would admit. she once told a friend that "i was a friend and thats all he will ever be.". ok, no problem, so why then, do you take all my pampering, take the time to record my every move and remember everything i said on demand, stare at my mouth when we talk, we go out of our way to buy things for each other. let me give you huge hugs and kiss you on the head, let me massage you, smile when i predict that she needs a coffee, theres like a whole lot more to it with our interaction. its like as if we are already a couple, ya know? I wouldn't mind this kind of attention from a friend. Like most single women, it would make me feel likeable and attractive. I also have a friend who does horseplay with me like your girlfriend and you do (tho I'd like him to hug and kiss me - I'm the one who does that part). There is no romantic or even sexual attraction on his part but there is on mine. He knows he could get whatever he wants from me but we did try FWB for a very short while until he realised this hurt me too much as I was getting far too attached. So our only 'physical' contact now are those silly games. I'm not sure what it brings him but that way he avoids too much intimacy. Most people on the outside think we are like a couple too and even that we look made for each other. Funny that as we'd be the oddest couple - for one I'm (obviously) older than him and he's very tall and lean while I'm rather plump and short (in an attractive way lol). We make a right couple indeed
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