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Hmmm. I don't really have an ideal type and I don't think it's a good idea to. But since this is for fun, Ms Perfect would have the following qualities:

 

1 Have looks whose immediate effect is to make me want to have sex with her (doesn't necessarily mean pretty)

 

2 Body language & mannerisms which immediately arouse me. Not anorexic, obese, or ugly.

 

3 Is not irrational, illogical, prone to any kind of mystical thinking, "faith" or gullibility. I.e. no religious beliefs, no superstition, doesn't play the lottery except for a laugh, doesn't belief in horoscopes etc

 

4 Acts in a fairly civilised way out of the bedroom i.e. no shouting, screaming, nagging, whining, crying, interrupting

 

5 Adventurous and passionate in bed, with no major sexual hangups

 

6 Does not want kids or marriage

 

7 Not too close to or dependent upon her family

 

8 Independent in mind & lifestyle, deciding things mainly for herself rather than taking the standard beliefs & behaviours from her peers and authority/society.

 

9 Is fairly well disciplined & motivated, doesn't indulge in weak impulse-driven behaviour, has high goals & ambitions in whatever fields she is passionate about.

 

10 Has a 36dd-28-36 figure with a phat ghetto booty

 

So as you can see, I am probably more likely to meet Elvis or the Loch Ness Monster than my ideal woman.

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A few years ago I would not date a blonde guy - I went for brown eyes and brown hair - it seemed to be my 'type'. Then I had an unfulfilled fantasy to meet a guy with long black hair and sensual eyes (in a french way?) this didn't happen and actually when I did find a guy who fit the description he was heavily into S&M and just a little TOO intense so um...I got scared off this type and my search for him. Since then I've kind of given up going for a 'type' because I've fallen for silver-haired men since and blue eyes and blonde hair types etc. even personal styles I was never into - i.e. conservatively smart and fashionable etc. So I guess now in my late 20's it is personality traits I am more interested in.

 

Thru trial and error and several *ahem* bfs, I have come to the conclusion I need at least the following to be happy (sorry if it seems a bit fascist!) with someone:

 

  • someone who can spell!
  • someone who is relatively well-educated i.e. college or has a good general knowledge and insight into world events, politics and current affairs
  • someone who has a successful career going or aspirations for the same - by career, I mean whatever the person has a passion about - not necessarily corporate - can be creative - as long as he can support himself!
  • someone with a car!
  • someone who has lived out of home before!
  • someone who respects women (non-chauvanistic)
  • someone who helps with household chores non-begrudgingly
  • someone who encourages and nurtures my creative pursuits
  • someone with a love of music and who is willing to share and exchange their favourite artists/genres / someone who doesn't complain about music being played quite often
  • someone who likes theatre / arthouse films / arts
  • someone who has a soft touch for animals
  • someone who likes children but not necessarily wants to breed with me in 5 minutes
  • someone who tolerates difference / artististic and personal expression and occasional eccentricities on my part!
  • someone who shares my passion for social justice / striving to improve life for the disadvantaged
  • someone who is open-minded spiritually and philosophically

Ths list could go on and on but basically this is my wish list! Sounds like a letter to Santa really - should create some kind of matching database and hook some peeps up on here! lol.

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No that treat still awaits... though I understand it also features a small child, who will probably ruin the experience for me.

 

 

Not just a small child, but Will's small child. It's truely a family affair. I saw it last night, very good.

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Eyes are my favorate part of a man because they say everything without a word. I can usually tell what a man is like by their eyes. I love light colored eyes. And I also like to kiss with our eyes open it just melts me.

 

When I touch a mans chest I dont want to feel breasts, I like a little hardness there, not the huge muscles just healthy.

 

Nice butt When a man has no butt to me they look funny nude.

 

I love to do my mans hands and feet. So when I first see them if they are a mess I will soften them up and keep them that way. I hate getting scratched by toe-nails and I cant stand a man with dirty hands and finger-nails.

 

He must be a man that cares about others and that would jump at a chance to help someone when asked or is in the a position to do so. Not ness. financially. More like a place to stay for a couple days, help them move, fix a tire, etc.

 

Someone who likes a woman to treat him like royality. I am into taking care of my man to the fullest the only thing he needs to do in the house is take out the trash and maybe fix something. And garden with me on the week-ends!

 

He enjoys leaving notes in unexpected places for me to find. And just once in a while come up behind me while Im doing dishes or something and hug me.

 

For all of this he will recieve the following: He will never be refused sex EVER! Why Because I LOVE SEX A LOT!! As long as he don't act like he's hiding something from me I will never ? his word. TRUST IS SO IMPORTANT. And he will be [COLOR=#0000ff]guaranteed[/COLOR] honesty, loyality, unconditional love 4ever, laughter, harmony, FRIENDSHIP, and faithfulness!! EXCITEMENT, And Adventure. Never will he be bored. His house will be clean his laundry done, hot meal when he gets home, And me looking hot at all times unless Im sick which is hardly ever. :love:

 

Any takers?? Yeah Right!!!:rolleyes:

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