Guest Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Hello, Im not too sure if anyone can answer my question, its not something im too concerned about just curious... My boyfriend watch's a lot of porn and i don't mind at all. I like to watch it with him and enjoy it in general. Recently I got sattelite tv and there is probably a good 30 channels of porn. My b/f doesn't want me to watch it, it has nothing to do with him being jealous, its because he says it can ruin me? He doesn't get mad and definetly doesn't say I can't he just would pefer me not to. We both like very slutty porn but when it comes to me watching it by myself he doesn't want me to see I guess "everyting that goes on" Of course he knows I know that there is some very strange stuff out there but why does he not want me to watch it? So does anyone have any take on this lol?? I guess its a lil weird. Any answers?! Thanks!
norajane Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Maybe he's afraid you'll start to think of sex as just sex and forget about the emotions part. Or maybe he thinks you'll get so used to seeing outlandish or "strange" sex, and will start to think that's normal, so normal sex will seem boring. Or maybe he's afraid you'll start to think his penis is too small since all those porn guys have huge penises... It could be anything - you should just ask him what he means.
amaysngrace Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 I think he's afraid you'll keep going bigger and better to get yourself off. And stretch yourself out.
burning 4 revenge Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 If I may interject from a man's perspective, it's the penis thing NJ mentioned. Which ties into what Grace said. Any guy would be afraid you'd be curious to try some really big ones and that may lead to a fetish which would result in your leaving him.
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 It's not a fetish to want a big c0ck...quite normal, actually.
burning 4 revenge Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 It's not a fetish to want a big c0ck...quite normal, actually.if someone selects partners based soley on some physical characteristic it's a fetish.
Porn_Guy Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 if someone selects partners based soley on some physical characteristic it's a fetish. I like girls with nice feet, does that count?
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 if someone selects partners based soley on some physical characteristic it's a fetish. No one said anything about selecting a partner based solely on a physical characteristic. What's wrong with wanting (and getting) the WHOLE package?
norajane Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 No one said anything about selecting a partner based solely on a physical characteristic. What's wrong with wanting (and getting) the WHOLE package? We're talking about irrational guy worrying about his gf watching too much porn. I don't think he's worrying about the whole package - just the penis part of it.
burning 4 revenge Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 No one said anything about selecting a partner based solely on a physical characteristic. What's wrong with wanting (and getting) the WHOLE package? i'm not talking about you. i'm saying if a girl gets used t seeing mandingo on porn videos and her bf is average at best, it may occur to her to experiment a little bit more and she may end up feeling dissatisfied with her current partner. god knows i wouldn't want to shortchange you of all people of getting the WHOLE package, being the princess, or goddess or wtf you are
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 We're talking about irrational guy worrying about his gf watching too much porn. I don't think he's worrying about the whole package - just the penis part of it. Well, yes that's part of the whole package but yeah...I got a little off-topic. Apologies to the OP.
Porn_Guy Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 i'm not talking about you. i'm saying if a girl gets used t seeing mandingo on porn videos and her bf is average at best, it may occur to her to experiment a little bit more and she may end up feeling dissatisfied with her current partner. true B4R but she's gonna have to go thru a bunch of dudes before she finds "mandingo".... unless she starts doing gonzo porn.
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 i'm not talking about you. i'm saying if a girl gets used t seeing mandingo on porn videos and her bf is average at best, it may occur to her to experiment a little bit more and she may end up feeling dissatisfied with her current partner. god knows i wouldn't want to shortchange you of all people of getting the WHOLE package, being the princess, or goddess or wtf you are I'm a goddess. And I never said you were talking about me. I was just responding. You seem very defensive. You must be one of those "average" guys! And thanks for your concern but trust me, I have not been shortchanged at all. Back on topic now. Yes, OP..you need to just flat out ask him. If you can't ask him that, I'd be more worried about that than anything else.
whichwayisup Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Im not too sure if anyone can answer my question, its not something im too concerned about just curious... My boyfriend watch's a lot of porn and i don't mind at all. I like to watch it with him and enjoy it in general. Recently I got sattelite tv and there is probably a good 30 channels of porn. My b/f doesn't want me to watch it, it has nothing to do with him being jealous, its because he says it can ruin me? He doesn't get mad and definetly doesn't say I can't he just would pefer me not to. We both like very slutty porn but when it comes to me watching it by myself he doesn't want me to see I guess "everyting that goes on" Of course he knows I know that there is some very strange stuff out there but why does he not want me to watch it? See, maybe because of his mindset about porn isn't as "healthy" as it should be, and because that's his way of thinking, he's really reflecting what he thinks onto you and you viewing porn. It's okay for him, but not for you - IN his mind it's two different things. He has NO control over what you feel when you watch porn...Does that make sense? I like girls with nice feet, does that count? PG I have to ask...Have you ever let a girl jerk you off with her feet?
burning 4 revenge Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Yes I'm one of those average guys , but your putird sense of entitlement that you are constantly harping about on here coming from an old woman like you is
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Yes I'm one of those average guys , but your putird sense of entitlement that you are constantly harping about on here coming from an old woman like you is Yes, I see I hit a nerve! Sense of entitlement, huh? Why not? Of course I'm entitled. Why wouldn't I be? And yes, I'm an old woman...now where's that cane of mine? Hell, I'd rather be an old woman than a not so young (average) prick though any day...not saying you are but if the shoe fits!
burning 4 revenge Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Yes, I see I hit a nerve! Sense of entitlement, huh? Why not? Of course I'm entitled. Why wouldn't I be? And yes, I'm an old woman...now where's that cane of mine? Hell, I'd rather be an old woman than a not so young (average) prick though any day...not saying you are but if the shoe fits!well i'm glad you're so happy with who you are
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 well i'm glad you're so happy with who you are Well, I'm glad that you're glad that I'm glad. So when are you going to be happy with who you are? And back on topic again...let's see..yeah, talk to your guy OP. So is his wing wang average?
lonelybird Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 I've heard many men addicted to the porn that they cannot control it even when they want to. it's like first taste good, but in the end it is saline. if the porn is all good, then why so many women complained that their hb or bf choose porn not their gf or wife? my advise is not only you don't watch, but also you work on stoping your bf to do it:rolleyes:
Porn_Guy Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 , then why so many women complained that their hb or bf choose porn not their gf or wife? cause the gf/wife may be fat and ugly...
Fun2BMe Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 And yes, I'm an old woman...now where's that cane of mine? Hell, I'd rather be an old woman than a not so young (average) prick I thought you were a man.
Lostgurl Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Hello, Im not too sure if anyone can answer my question, its not something im too concerned about just curious... My boyfriend watch's a lot of porn and i don't mind at all. I like to watch it with him and enjoy it in general. Recently I got sattelite tv and there is probably a good 30 channels of porn. My b/f doesn't want me to watch it, it has nothing to do with him being jealous, its because he says it can ruin me? He doesn't get mad and definetly doesn't say I can't he just would pefer me not to. We both like very slutty porn but when it comes to me watching it by myself he doesn't want me to see I guess "everyting that goes on" Of course he knows I know that there is some very strange stuff out there but why does he not want me to watch it? So does anyone have any take on this lol?? I guess its a lil weird. Any answers?! Thanks! That's screwed. He sounds pretty over protective of you, or controlling. I really don't know why on earth he could figure that he can watch it when he pleases, and then ask you not to . Your a big girl right? You like slutty porn and i'm sure that you can handle seeing what is out there and not influence you to "join" in lol! He sounds pretty insecure to me.
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 I thought you were a man. Well, I DO have balls! Oh, so THAT'S why B4 likes me so much!
burning 4 revenge Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 Well, I DO have balls! Oh, so THAT'S why B4 likes me so much! your beard isn't growing because you have balls, it's just menopause
Touche Posted January 12, 2007 Posted January 12, 2007 your beard isn't growing because you have balls, it's just menopause Ha, ha! If it makes you feel good to think that then so be it. Oh and speaking of hair.. how's the old bald spot? Ok, trying to stay on topic here...good post lostgurl. I agree. Bet he has an average one though..that's what this is all about. It always is.
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