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Well here is my story -

 

I have fell in love with a man four years ago and after eighteen months we called it quits. For the next year and a half we remained great friends, trying to work out what went wrong.

 

He finally moved on and so did I as we were not working anything out. After 12 months of no contact he reappears and fully commits to us and our future.

 

I was dubious but he sounded different. Indeed we went on to have a different relationship in many ways.

 

Some things did change others didn't. Maybe we understood each other better, but we were happy. I know we loved each other dearly and he always said I was the best friend he ever had.

 

We had a bad argument the day before CHristmas which was my fault and his fault. He has a tendency to not want to discuss anything if I am angry and shut me out. It drives me crazy!!! Instead of him saying sorry I didn't say sorry

and he kind of broke up. Not intentionally but we did.

 

I didn't plead or cry because I didn't think it was for real.

 

Maybe he didn't either, we completely stuffed each others CHristmas and our holiday. Boxing Day I said sorry - but he wouldn't have it. Saying too late now. A week went by and he called for something unrelated and sounded chirpy - so was I. I thought he would finally say sorry, but he didn't and carried on. Two weeks later - I called to say hey what are we going to do about our holiday that we have booked and he said -cancel /refund etc.

 

I suggested going as friends and started to talk about what happened. He was angry and said - now you want to talk - everything is on your terms - we were never going to go the distance - I just can't think at the moment. You

didn't want to have anything to do with me over CHristmas and when I moved my stuff out. It is all too raw. I am going away for work for two weeks - Ill call you about the holiday when I come back'

 

That was a week ago, and besides a text saying have a great weekend and I will talk when I get back- I haven't heard from him.

 

This is not like him. It sounds like he really thinks we have no future and doesn't want to have anything to do with me. I thought he would miss me

more than I miss him, but I am dying inside. I am doing the no contact and haven't cried in front of him or pleaded. At the same time, I have said, I love you on the couple of times we spoke. It hasn't made any difference.

 

I think he is just stringing me along to see how he feels when he comes back in a week and a half. Because we have broken up before, in previous years, everyone is saying - he has had a few starts - it mustn't be meant to be.

 

But they haven't been around the last eight months. We were going really great - I thought. Never a day passed by he didn't say he loved me, or how much I meant to him.

 

I can't believe you can love someone and let them go - but like his last text said. 'Is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all'.

 

What do you think?

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Well here is my story -

 

I have fell in love with a man four years ago and after eighteen months we called it quits. For the next year and a half we remained great friends, trying to work out what went wrong.

 

He finally moved on and so did I as we were not working anything out. After 12 months of no contact he reappears and fully commits to us and our future.

 

I was dubious but he sounded different. Indeed we went on to have a different relationship in many ways.

 

Some things did change others didn't. Maybe we understood each other better, but we were happy. I know we loved each other dearly and he always said I was the best friend he ever had.

 

We had a bad argument the day before CHristmas which was my fault and his fault. He has a tendency to not want to discuss anything if I am angry and shut me out. It drives me crazy!!! Instead of him saying sorry I didn't say sorry

and he kind of broke up. Not intentionally but we did.

 

I didn't plead or cry because I didn't think it was for real.

 

Maybe he didn't either, we completely stuffed each others CHristmas and our holiday. Boxing Day I said sorry - but he wouldn't have it. Saying too late now. A week went by and he called for something unrelated and sounded chirpy - so was I. I thought he would finally say sorry, but he didn't and carried on. Two weeks later - I called to say hey what are we going to do about our holiday that we have booked and he said -cancel /refund etc.

 

I suggested going as friends and started to talk about what happened. He was angry and said - now you want to talk - everything is on your terms - we were never going to go the distance - I just can't think at the moment. You

didn't want to have anything to do with me over CHristmas and when I moved my stuff out. It is all too raw. I am going away for work for two weeks - Ill call you about the holiday when I come back'

 

That was a week ago, and besides a text saying have a great weekend and I will talk when I get back- I haven't heard from him.

 

This is not like him. It sounds like he really thinks we have no future and doesn't want to have anything to do with me. I thought he would miss me

more than I miss him, but I am dying inside. I am doing the no contact and haven't cried in front of him or pleaded. At the same time, I have said, I love you on the couple of times we spoke. It hasn't made any difference.

 

I think he is just stringing me along to see how he feels when he comes back in a week and a half. Because we have broken up before, in previous years, everyone is saying - he has had a few starts - it mustn't be meant to be.

 

But they haven't been around the last eight months. We were going really great - I thought. Never a day passed by he didn't say he loved me, or how much I meant to him.

 

I can't believe you can love someone and let them go - but like his last text said. 'Is better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all'.

 

What do you think?

 

HEY, I HAD SOMETHING HAPPEN JUST LIKE THAT - ONLY I WASN'T MAD AT HER, MAD AT MYSELF BECAUSE I JUMPED THE GUN, EXCITABLE BOI - ALWAYS REMEMBER, IF U ARE NOT INVITED TO THE PARTY DON'T SHOW UP TRYING TO CRASH IT EVEN IF U ARE BRINGING BOOZE. TOTALLY MY FAULT - WHAT I HAVE LEARNED IS DON'T MESS WITH A GOOD WOMAN - YER ROADKILL IF YOU DO.

 

I AM SORRY BUT GLAD U ACCEPTED THE EGGNOG AND FIRECRACKERS

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