wtf56 Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 My girlfriend is very beautiful with a personality to match. She didn't grow up with competition as far as fashion goes and she is unique in her own way. My peeve is her wears three ear rings on each ear. I'm a conservative guy and I think it makes her look like a low life tramp. I can't say it like that, but I want to. I'm not trying to buy her looks. She doesn't understand a lot of higher class looks. I've paid for breast enhancements, new crowns and bought her a lot of clothes. She continues to wear the ear rings. I love her, but I don't want to be seen with her when she looks like that. Is there someone out there that can help me with this. She gets terribly offended when I bring ithis up. WTF56
Guest Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 My girlfriend is very beautiful with a personality to match. She didn't grow up with competition as far as fashion goes and she is unique in her own way. My peeve is her wears three ear rings on each ear. I'm a conservative guy and I think it makes her look like a low life tramp. I can't say it like that, but I want to. I'm not trying to buy her looks. She doesn't understand a lot of higher class looks. I've paid for breast enhancements, new crowns and bought her a lot of clothes. She continues to wear the ear rings. I love her, but I don't want to be seen with her when she looks like that. Is there someone out there that can help me with this. She gets terribly offended when I bring ithis up. WTF56 I'm a little confused. Why are 'breast enhancements' higher class while three earrings is low class?
Guest Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 My girlfriend is very beautiful with a personality to match. She didn't grow up with competition as far as fashion goes and she is unique in her own way. My peeve is her wears three ear rings on each ear. I'm a conservative guy and I think it makes her look like a low life tramp. I can't say it like that, but I want to. I'm not trying to buy her looks. She doesn't understand a lot of higher class looks. I've paid for breast enhancements, new crowns and bought her a lot of clothes. She continues to wear the ear rings. I love her, but I don't want to be seen with her when she looks like that. Is there someone out there that can help me with this. She gets terribly offended when I bring ithis up. WTF56 Dear WTF56 You said it yourself, you love her. Part of loving a person is loving them for who they are, if you are so turned off by her earrings perhaps you should talk to her about it first, if she cares for you as much as you care for her, you two might be able to come to some middle ground. I'm sure she will be considerate of your feelings as well. If that doesn't work you might simply have to sit back and tough it out. After all, it's just physical appearance, I'm sure you love her for who she is on the inside.... RIGHT!?? Just pour a cup of coffee, sit and analyze the situation, are you really willing to sacrifice your relationship over a few pairs of earrings?
JackJack Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 I'm not trying to buy her looks. But yet you have paid for boobs, crowns and got her new clothes? She doesn't understand a lot of higher class looks. You may offend others here as well that have 3 earings. but I don't want to be seen with her when she looks like that. Is there someone out there that can help me with this. She gets terribly offended when I bring ithis up. Maybe she likes it that way. Do you even love her for real? It sure doesn't come across that way. You're trying to change her to fit into what you think SHE should look like. Thats not how a relationship is supposed to work. Put yourself in her place for a bit.
Touche Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 I completely agree with Jack. You contradict yourself. With that being said though, I will admit (and don't mean to offend) but I've always thought that the multiple earrings in each ear is a little tacky. But then, I tend to be very conservative for the most part. Bottom line is you already said what you thought about it...anymore than that and I'd call you a control freak. If you don't like her style, and this is such an issue for you, then you need to find someone's style that you DO like. Someone you don't have to change.
Woggle Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 This is who she is and you need to accept her for it. If you try to change evntually it will be something else and she will grow to resent you for it. I don't think the multiple earrings look bad and if that is what makes her happy you should support it.
Catriona Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Doesn't make any sense to me. Seems to me that you've invested a lot of money in a girl that you could lose over something as silly as earrings? If she is really that important you'll overlook the earrings and accept her for what she is ... it'll wear off soon enough and she'll drop the extra earrings.
Moose Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Look at that word......"break"..... That ticks me off a bit, but hey.....I know what you mean, and it gives me an idea of your personality.My girlfriend is very beautiful with a personality to match.So far I don't see a problem, (with your girlfriend anyway).She didn't grow up with competition as far as fashion goes and she is unique in her own way.K, more insight as to where you're coming from.....I stress the word, "you".My peeve is her wears three ear rings on each ear.Ooops.....did you type too fast? Or am I missing something? (more insight). Anyway.....I still don't see a problem.....with the GF.I'm a conservative guy and I think it makes her look like a low life tramp.AH HA! Here it is.....ok, so all women who wear three "earrings" in each ear should be thought of as low life? This speaks volumes about where you lay your perceptions of other people, and it's my opinion that you should look at yourself in the mirror, and beyond and see the faults that lie within yourself. Maybe you'll see others in a different way?I can't say it like that, but I want to.There's your whole problem right there. You said you love your GF, she has the looks and personality......and one might think that you included this in your post because you realize what you've got.....but then you blow it out of the water with this:I'm not trying to buy her looks. She doesn't understand a lot of higher class looks. I've paid for breast enhancements, new crowns and bought her a lot of clothes. She continues to wear the ear rings. I love her, but I don't want to be seen with her when she looks like that.Now it's more of protecting your investment......and your image huh? Classy. It's like buying a classic Corvette well below the blue book value, but the paint and vinyl are pink right? Son, a Vette is a VETTE!She gets terribly offended when I bring ithis up.I can't say that I would blame her really.....Good Luck!
whichwayisup Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Control issues, much? Uhmm, learn to live with it. She has 3 earrings in one ear, big deal! IF you don't like it, break up with her. Just because you've bought her some fake boobies, clothes, crowns (hopefully you're meaning teeth and not a crown for her head) doesn't give you the right to make her LOOK the way you want her to. She is who she is...And hopefully she's a smart one and dump you, because you've bought her affections, trying to make her out to LOOK like someone she's not, so she can play the visual part in your life. Real sad...
Touche Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Control issues, much? Uhmm, learn to live with it. She has 3 earrings in one ear, big deal! IF you don't like it, break up with her. Just because you've bought her some fake boobies, clothes, crowns (hopefully you're meaning teeth and not a crown for her head) doesn't give you the right to make her LOOK the way you want her to. She is who she is...And hopefully she's a smart one and dump you, because you've bought her affections, trying to make her out to LOOK like someone she's not, so she can play the visual part in your life. Real sad...
Jeffrey Posted January 11, 2007 Posted January 11, 2007 I've heard of men wanting trophy wives, you're the first dude I've seen actually trying to create one. How pathetic.
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