sassafron1 Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 im a little embarrassed writing this, but i cant ask my friends for advice since this is a secret: so a while ago i was with this guy, my 2 friends were fighting over him and everyone was a bit drunk so i sidled up and got in there undetected. to cut a long story short he came back to mine and had sex (which he was average at) and he stayed the night we did it again in the morning and then said goodbye, as we were seeing each other at a party that nite. anyway, i saw him that night and we didnt really speak but whenever we did it was cos he made the effort, he wanted to come back to mine and i said yes and then he changed his mind and wanted me at his and we had a small altercation and i hung up never thinking id speak to him again. anyway he called and apologised the next day and i went away on holiday for 2 weeks, over which he msged me for my birthday and i said id see him when i got home which he was like cool. so i msg him when i get home asking if he wants to come over and i got NO REPLY and that was almost a week ago the bastard. i nevre expected much out of it, im not deluding myself that it was love but why not even a msg back saying "no im busy" and blowing me off like that? at least that wouldnt have been as embarrassing. why do guys do this i need closure cos i am confused!!
amaysngrace Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 anyway he called and apologised the next day and i went away on holiday for 2 weeks, over which he msged me for my birthday and i said id see him when i got home which he was like cool. It's hard to expect someone to try so hard to keep something going when there's not a whole lot there to begin with. Correct me if I'm wrong but you guys met up twice, both times you slept with him, and you even fought once in those two times? I think maybe he's not thinking much about you at all actually. Sorry to say but it doesn't sound as if you two had a solid foundation if you were hoping to have a relationship with him. If I were him you'd be a 'hit and run'.
Pretty Fly Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 Can I just point out that girls do it too, it's not just a guy thing.
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