Rhythm28 Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 A couple of weeks ago I went to the bank to get a statement. I walk in and out of the corner office walks out this gorgeous brunette. She asks if I need something and I say I need a statement. Strange. Why would the bank manager go out of her way to help me? She invites me to her office where I see a picture of a small boy (her son I'm guessing) but no pictures of the father and/or husband. Hmmmmmm. So she prints out the statement, I get up to turn around and she reaches out to shake my hand. What??? A handshake for a bank statement. I leave the bank and I say to myself, "You're an idiot. WHY didn't you ask her for number?!?! Stupid!" A week later I go in to deposit some money. I look up and she's looking right at me from her corner office. I leave without doing anything. Today I went in there with the intention of getting her number. I made another deposit. Talked to a guy I knew that worked there. Changed my address with someone else that worked there and then talked to another guy that I knew that works there also. By this time I had been in there a good 20 minutes. Stalling because she had someone in her office. She comes out and I go in to talk to her. I ask her for her phone number and she says, "I'm married. I was horrified. You do not know how embarassed I was. She pointed at her ring and the picture of her son. I apologized like crazy but then she asked me if I wanted her office number. I did not know what that meant. I think she was trying to spare me some more shame or do damage control in case someone in the other offices heard what was going on in there. Ok so she's married. No prob. Move on. This one's taken. My question is: Is my radar broken? Did I misinterpret her signals? I thought I was "in" because I didn't see a picture of the happy couple on her desk. No picture of her husband anywhere. I don't know if I can show my face there again.
Dadaal Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 More like the same story has happened to me ! I think you were too fast to ask her number, you should have waited for a while. Sometimes people mix up work related signs with emotional ones. But my story is not actually the same. I have recently moved in to this town where almost everybody knows every one and I and my girlfriend went to the bank to start some normal procedures and all of a sudden this cute girl has been staring at me for 10 minutes. I did not pay much attention thinking that she was flirting. The next day, I was cycling and this woman saw me somewhere - my girlfriend went to the bank and all of a sudden this woman came up and said - I saw your boyfriend cycling !!! why did she really care so much about me !! After some time, I and my girlfriend moved to the next bigger town where we've started dealing with a new branch but the same bank. My girlfriend went there and all of a sudden she saw this girl working - she asked my girlfriend how I was and if got friends there... oops I have started asking question to myself like if she was interested in me - honestly speaking I don't even remember her face well !!... I went to the bank one day and all of a sudden in the line I realised this woman was staring at me and I went to the counter and told she knows me and my girlfriend........ooops.... Is that a coincidence or something else..I don't know
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