confucious Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Alright, here is the scenario: GF of 6 months calls on you on your cell right when she gets home (you live seperate) asking where you are, what are you doing, and when do you think you'll be by to pick her up - even though you'd given her a general hour. Small talk ensues for another 2 minutes and then you get off the phone cause you're in a store. You pick her up and hour and a half later and have a great night/great sex. While looking through your stuff she finds some old numbers of old dates, is not overjoyed but also doesn't get p-ed off, but on the way out the door makes a comment about how she couldn't get her laundry done before you came and got her because she ran into Jeff. Who is Jeff? is my question. "Oh - the neighbour." He is ten years her junior and she said he is cute (I am assuming she means general personality/demeanour) and I am not overly concerned - am thinking perhaps she said this to make ME jealous because of the numbers?? Thing is - I have never really heard of him - and right now it is winter, so if one were to NOT do laundry (in buildings basement) because they ran into thier neighbour, it is a good bet they didn't stand and chat outside for any length of time as it is COLD. This leads me to think she went to his house, or he to hers - if she had run into him on the way down to do laundry, I doubt she would STOP doing laundry and go to his house, but instead put it in and THEN go. So, she met him on her way upstairs...then called me to see where I was and how long I would be. Even said she was in her PJ's. THEN hung out with Jeff never telling me (even on the phone) until she wanted to get her digs in. She was also wet from the shower when I picked her up. Or perhaps this is all BS and she is just trying to get a reaction out of me. Either way, it stinks! Does this sound dodgy to you?? I am not overly worried, to be honest, am just starting to learn the strange lies she tells - be it by omission/avoidance or by lying straight faced. Why do we always think thier angels when we first meet???
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