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Should a girl make the first moves???


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I recently exchanged numbers with a guy I've liked for a while. He got his heart broken about a 1 ago when things ended with his g/f of 3 years and then she went on to do really some really f'ed up things to him that hurt him deeply. He was really in love with her and it has been extremely hard for him to get over her.

 

We made out the night we exchanged digits which was about 2 weeks ago, but I've known him and liked him for the longest time. Since is always texting me and IM me, but almost never calls me and he hasn't really asked me out or made any moves. He also told one of our friends that since he broke up with his ex, he does not really know how to start things with a girl 'cause is just too weird for him after being committed for 3 years and single for one...Do you think that's his reason for not trying to go a little faster with me or he is just plain not interested in me? Also do you think I should make the initial moves to give him a little confidence??? I don't wanna seem pushy though...Any thoughts???:o

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I think he is not over her otherwise he would be crazy about you.

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He could be shy too. I vote that you make the moves and watch him to see if he is ready for a relationship.

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I think he's not over his ex. Just be great friends for a while.

 

Then again, you said you already made out. If so, you're already past "friends". But you said he's never asked you out or called. I'm a little confused.

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He could be shy too. I vote that you make the moves and watch him to see if he is ready for a relationship.

 

I agree thats how i met my last gf she asked if i wanted to hit the movies n we were good from then on, this was after a 1 yr break up nice to know sum1 else was interested

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