alex434 Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Ok so heres the deal: Last night me and my gf went out with her friend. I met her friend and we were heading to her Bf's house. On the car ride they were catching up on past times and laughing and having a good time, i, however, wasent talking because i couldnt really relate, so in terms, for an hour and a half i was bored out my ****ing mind. Occasionally my GF would turn around and say TALK when i didnt have nothing to really say... ( BAD DAY AT WORK ) We got to her bf's house and we all hung out for a bit then i came home. Today on the phone my GF tells me that i acted like a "Dick" and that her friend liked me but didnt "love" me ( as in ooooh hes so great for you!! ) I asked what her friend said about me but she wouldnt tell me, and she went on telling me that she wants me to impress her friends so they like me. I completely disagree with this however, i dont think that i need to put on a fake face to impress her friends and that i should have to gain her Friends acceptance to be with her, I was pissed that night and i showed it like i would around anyone else. She then tells me that i better hope that her one friend likes me because she goes by what her friend tells her about her bfs. MY question is should i have to gain acceptance from her friends to be with her? should i care what her friends think, and should she also care what they think? I dont know if i should be in an relationship where i have to impress her friends i figured it only mattered on my GF thinks of me not what her friends think, All of your input would greatly be appreciated
tanbark813 Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 How old are you guys? Your gf sounds like she's either really immature or a bitch. Or both. People generally want their friends to like their SO's but you shouldn't be subjected to some kind of screening process. This: She then tells me that i better hope that her one friend likes me because she goes by what her friend tells her about her bfs. ..is completely ridiculous.
Pink Amulet Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Problem: Your girlfriend is a spoilt little bitch.... Solution: NEXT!
whichwayisup Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Seems NONE of them, including your girlfriend, made any effort to get to know you...To ask you questions, or for your girlfriend to ease you and include you in the conversations. Ask your girlfriend how SHE would feel if the situation was reversed? How would she like it to sit there and listen to you and your buddies talk about things you don't know about, from their past etc...I bet she'd be PISSED OFF and later on giving you crap how you excluded her from the conversation! She's the one who was being the dick, not you.
Teacher's Pet Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Dump the bitch. My ex did the EXACT same thing to me. First time I went out with all her friends, they were mostly talking about people I didn't know, so I kept my mouth shut and smiled and listened...... Well, apparently, that was wrong. She then proceeded to break up with me (for the 2nd time) for a week..... Meanwhile, most of her friends are unemployed alcoholics. In fact, I went over and above proving "I wanted to be in the 'group'" when I bailed her best (male) friend of out a serious jam at like 2am.... I think I earned membership to the club. A "club" which my ex disbanded, one by one, as she alienated everyone in her life, last of all... me. My God... what the hell was I thinking when I proposed to her? Wow..... this is what happens when you have a penis. -tp dodgin' bullets
whichwayisup Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Wow..... this is what happens when you have a penis LOL! And it happens to us women as we're the ones to let emotions rule us and make our judgement crappy. Same thing sort of, but not really...Ah, you know what I mean.....
CaliGuy Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Move along, that's what I'd do. She's not mature enough to be in a relationship.
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