herenow Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 I guess her calling the OW and hanging up every minute is what she meant by creating drama. I call it standing up for yourself and showing how STUPID the OW was acting by calling 50+ times a day. Sorry, but anyone calling anybody that many times in one day has a screw loose....... I think that was something another poster (Lost One) did and was suggesting that the original poster do. I guess sometimes it works to give a person that's annoying you a dose of their own medicine. Maybe this is a good case for an NC letter, and monitoring the answering machine for a while. I don't know what will make the OW stop calling since I've never had the OW mindset. First and foremost is to make sure the H has made it very clear to the OW that he never wants to speak with her again.
outofdarkness Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 The hang up calls are par for the course when it comes to A's...I got them for up to a year after D day...I tried to ignore them, but the more of they came, the more anxious I became. Until..one day, our 12 year old daughter answered the phone, the OW hung up and our daughter pushed *69 and she answered. It was devastating...The next day, she parked her SUV right by our driveway...It was all very nerve wracking...I tend to think the best thing to do is to act like it doesn't bother you. After all, isn't that why the exOW is doing this? She feels angry, hurt and betrayed? This all comes out on the W because of all of the lies the OW has been told. If someone knows something is bothersome, they'll keep doing it...This is the old bully syndrome...
IrishGurl Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Hello there, ...and if I answered she would say things like "if I were you I wouldnt take him back" and things along those lines. Mx This comment would beg the question, "So, why in the world are YOU pursuing him?" Change your phone number...to unlisted.
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