scuderia Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 I doubt you guys remember my story but i'll give you all a short guide. i used to like a girl... we used to be very good friends but eventually she changed... one moment she will be very friendly , following week she will be indifferent to me and wont even reply after a few sms... sometime later i found out she got attached to this rich guy wif a car and she din tell me... then only all the pieces fitted together and i realized y from very good friend, things changed to the state where she was friendly 1 week and indifferent the following week it was caus she had some issues with this guy who i din know about a that time and she din even tell me.. i was abit disgusted that someone i cared about so much was only using me whenever things were bad over at the other side...i muz mention that until now she has'nt told me shes attached and i have also never asked her about it... my whole impression f her changed to the point that every time she suddenly becomes friendly my 1st reaction is shes having trouble... so i juz went NC.. no sms, delete from msn etc... total NC 1 week after i started NC, she forwarded me an sms about wat an impt friend i am to her, i did not send anything back.... 3 mths later she smsed me asking me how i am and that she has not heard from me a lon time etc... i acted indifferent like i have gotten over even though in reality i hadnt. further more at that time i went for an exchange prog with the person she dosent like. i did not go on exchange with that person to piss her off, juz that that person is a very good friend of mine and we became better friends while i was in NC with the other girl. She was'nt expecting me to be good friends with her... anyway as i was saying i replied indifferently and the moment she found out i went on exchange with the person she didn't like she stopped replying me , caus she din noe i went on an exchange and the fact that i went with the person she dosent like made it worse... this was in Oct. now im back in my original sch and its juz a matter of ime before i eventually bump into her and her guy... i know i will feel sad and maybe hurt... maybe i wont be as hurt if i seen them both 6 mths ago but i will still feel a slight tinge enough to give me a sick feeling when i see them anyone can give any advise on wat i can do?? as in how do i react if i walk past both of them or even any advise on how not to feel lousy when i eventually see them both tog in sch?? advice greatly appreciated
sunangel Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Sweetheart you need to let her go! I know it hurts, but in reality maybe it's a good thing that she's with that guy cause she obviously is only interested in "using" people. Do you really want a person like her in your life? Be strong and have faith that sooner or later someone who's worthy will come your way, and this other girl will just be erased from your memory! If you do happen to see them..... Wait and see HER reaction. If she says hello then be a gentlemen and do the same, if not, than just pretend you didn't even see her. Good Luck!
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