arual68 Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 I am a 20 yr old female and I have been married since I was 16. My husband and I have two kids. About a year ago I met a guy online he told me he loves me(we have never met in person).... I am soooo confused about what I should do.. I am in love with my husband but I am starting to have feelings for this other guy.. I don't know if I am starting to have feelings for him because my husband works a lot and I just need/want the attention that he's not giving me or if these feelings actually mean something.. PLEASE HELP!!
Poboy Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 stick to your husband and kids ... you havent met this internet guy so who know who he could be and since your married n have kids , dont bother about other guys on the internet or anywhere , work on your marriage ....
Bryanp Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 If the roles were reversed, how would you feel if your husband was doing to you what you are doing to him?
WhisperingWillow Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 I am a 20 yr old female and I have been married since I was 16. My husband and I have two kids. About a year ago I met a guy online he told me he loves me(we have never met in person).... I am soooo confused about what I should do.. I am in love with my husband but I am starting to have feelings for this other guy.. I don't know if I am starting to have feelings for him because my husband works a lot and I just need/want the attention that he's not giving me or if these feelings actually mean something.. PLEASE HELP!! That's exactly what this is. Also it is as you said, because your husband works a lot and also I'll throw in the maturity aspect of it. I too got married when I was sixteen, am now divorced. I would never do that again if I had to do it all over. Though I got two beautiful children out of it. I was way too immature and we were more like best friends than anything else. I would say you talk to your husband. Keep the lines of communication open. Also be leary of people on the net, they aren't always as they seem. Stick with what you know and have. It's always about the grass seems greener on the other side until you get over there and you're stuck with weeds.
azera Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 I know how u feel, I got married a 18.Last yr I met a man on myspace I had an affair with him for 4 months. I regret doing that. Im married 26 yrs and I think if we werent married so long we'd be divorced from what I did because my husband is having a hard time with it and its been a yr. So my advice to u is dont do it.
Buttaflyy Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Exactly! Work on your marriage and cut all contact with the internet guy. You don't know him! He is a distraction for you right now. You are already cheating on your husband and having an emotional affair with another man. Don't make it worst. Realize also, that the other guy is probably not taking this as seriously as you are. He's trying to score on the internet. He doesn't know you either. Cut contact and work on your marriage. It takes two to do so, at least, do YOUR part.
Guest Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Yeah, you DO know what to do. It's just not easy. Cut off contact with this man before you mess up your kid's lives over some guy you don't even really know.
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