binsta Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Hi, This is the first thread Ive posted. To make this short, I met this amazing guy on xmas eve. We swapped numbers that night, and have been in contact every day since. We have now seen each other 5 times, and is going excellant! Just to add, im 25 and hes 27, and we have not yet had sex as we both wanted to wait a little longer to get to know each other. I can tell he really likes me by the little things he does. My question is, how do you know when its more than just dating? Is there a time in which you think 'ok its been 2 months, it must be exclusive"? or do you actually have a little 'chat' about it? I know its only been a little while since Ive met him, but it feels like we have known each other for years as we just click (i hope this makes sense). Any experience in this, or any advise would be greatly appreciated.
Zaira Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 To be completely sure, I think it's something you have to ask. It seemed to come up naturally in my relationship about 4 weeks in. He basically asked (and I was wondering) if we were exclusive.
Island Girl Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 You have to have the talk. Until then protect yourself and don't have sex with him until this is resolved. You have to be able to talk about STDs, etc. If you aren't comfortable or close enough to talk about this kind of stuff then you shouldn't think about sleeping with him. I'm glad it is going well and I hope it continues to go well for you.
Author binsta Posted January 9, 2007 Author Posted January 9, 2007 thanks guys, i appreciate your fast response... I agree that maybe the little 'talk; is needed in its own time. thanks:)
Recommended Posts