lollerskates Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 ok so i want to know if this girl i really like likes me back. ill only say things that are of importance. it was the first day of school. she had a broken leg, but i didnt like her then. i still did nice htings like held doors open for her and stuff. after a few weeks she got her cast taken off. a few days later, i was walking down the hall, when all of a sudden she walked out of a classroom. she smiled at me and she started to walk next to me. she then asked me if it was wedsnday, so i nodded because it was. a few days later, i told one of my friends that i was faster then him. he wanted to bet me that i wasnt, but i didnt want to. then she told me in an annoyed tone that i was just like her dad. my friend and her are friends. over the next months, she talked to me a little, and i think looked at me in class sometimes. when she talked to me her voice was very quiet, but i think thats how she always talks. on december we had a field trip. on the way to and from the field trip, she stood next to me in line to get on the bus. a few days after that, this kid started to run around in P.E and he said, OMG ITS CHRISTMAS. i just looked at him and said, no its not. so then the girl i like said to me, yes it is its christmas for us. thats about it, but if i remember anything ill post it up =/
Zaira Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Of course she likes you, that is obvious, but I don't think you can tell to what extent. If you like her just continue being friendly with her, and then maybe you can ask her to hang out after school or something? I'm not sure how old you are, but EVERY relationship should at least start with a friendship. If you like her though, maybe it's time to start giving a few hints back
Author lollerskates Posted January 8, 2007 Author Posted January 8, 2007 hmm ok. like what kinds of hints? oh yea, shes the kind that doesnt really talk unless its with her friends. oh yea, most of the times when we talk, she usually talks to me first.
Zaira Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Um... eye contact, making conversation with her, maybe some light body contact. Ask to hang out alone some time. Don't be too rushed though. You should build a good friendship with this girl first before it turns to anything more.
Ultimate ATF Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Im no expert, but that does sound like she likes you. Im only thirteen and there was a situation that happened to me just like that only they are ugly and smell bad. Real bad. anyway good luck with her.
Author lollerskates Posted January 8, 2007 Author Posted January 8, 2007 well ok thanks guys ill try this tommorow... btw she isnt ugly . i think that she is very pretty lol
Author lollerskates Posted January 9, 2007 Author Posted January 9, 2007 ok this is what happened today. i was in science class and her group and my group were sitting right next next to eachother. so me being in group one and my friend and her being in group two. i wanted to talk to my friend, so im like PSSST. he turned around and so did the girl i like.after i started talking to him she turned back around. then i asked my friend a question on our lab. he was thinking about it, while i think that she was looking on her paper, because she was turning it around. well anyways he answered me. then i was talking to him about something that i forgot what it was, and i think that she was listening to me or just looking at me. i dont know but i think she was facing my way. one more thing i forgot on the top was, since shes very quiet, sometime i couldnt hear her so i say what, but she says nevermind
Ultimate ATF Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 idk man, it looked like she wanted to help you badly, but just said nevermind and didn't want all the trouble because your friend probably already answered your question if that was a sign that she likes you, probably so- it depends how far away she was from you. i mean if she was across the group, she most likely probbaly likes you. if she was right next to your friend, she was probably just wanting to help.
Author lollerskates Posted January 9, 2007 Author Posted January 9, 2007 oh yea she didnt talk to me today, i was just saying that when she did and i said what, she said nevermind. oh yea, when i was talking to my friend, she was either listening to me, looking at me, or looking at the poster of a black hole behind me. and she was right next to my friend oh yea and 1 more thing, im in 8th grade
subrosa7470 Posted January 18, 2007 Posted January 18, 2007 I don't think she likes you, women don't like men unless they need them for something just like men. Ignore her a bit then start flirting with her friends then see if she gets jealous i guarantee you'll find out her intentions real fast and if she does like you she will become more attracted to you cause your treating her with no respect and like trash.
Author lollerskates Posted January 25, 2007 Author Posted January 25, 2007 haha.... sorry but i dont think thats gonna happen anytime soon =/ well, im just gonna say wat has happened this week. on monday, me and my friends were at the library at school just talking.the girl i like's friends sat in a table behind me. there was about 2 boys and 2 girls there, just friends i think, but the girl i like wasnt there. so anyways, one of the girls there was like, PSST to me. i turned around and she just laughed with one of her friends. she did it again, but this time she said that she liked me. not that the girl i like likes me, but just herself. one of the guys then said yea she really does. they were laughing, but i dont even know them. i know the 2 guys a little, but not the girls. well anyways, yesterday, while i was in P.E, i had to pick up all the balls and stuff.well the girl i like knows that me and someone else are supposed to do that. well i was walking toward the locker rooms, when my teacher reminded me to get the bag with the stuff. as i walked to get it, she was there putting away the flags we put on and the balls too. well i told her that i was only supposed to put the flags away, so she went "ummm... ok?" then walked away. then in science class, since our groups are right next to each other, she just happened to sit in the seat next to mine. well i just started to move around and stuff, and i think she was doing some of the same things as me. if i rested my elbow on the table and put my head on my hand, she did it too, but only sometimes. i also think that she crossed her ankles like me. she crossed her legs once, and then started to rock the leg that was on top ( the foot was pointed towards me ) ummmm yea lol
Author lollerskates Posted January 31, 2007 Author Posted January 31, 2007 umm anyone know what that means?
Cous Cous With Goose Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 Yea I know what it means. It means in a couple of months you're both going to high school, which means you're not so special anymore, which means stop being such a nice guy and DO SOMETHING! And by nice guy I mean not responding back to her signals. Here I'll give you an example. as i walked to get it, she was there putting away the flags we put on and the balls too. well i told her that i was only supposed to put the flags away, so she went "ummm... ok?" then walked away. then in science class, since our groups are right next to each other, she just happened to sit in the seat next to mine. lol thats so lame dude no offense. "I'm only supposed to put the flags away." lmfao:laugh: What you need to recognize is that when a girl does something like this, esp. after she's shown signs is that 1)she already knows this(she wasnt supposed to put the flags away lol) 2)its your chance to show her what youre about, esp when you're alone with her. Trust me, it's so much easier to talk to a girl you know likes you because you know she's going to eat every word you spit out. You can talk about anything, but the smart thing to do is to hint in your conversations that you like her. Kinda flirt with her. Make her think..'does he really like me?' do that for a couple days and swoop in! Like..find the nerve to stare in her eyes and tell her she got great eyes or something it's gonna work at the middle school level. By the sound of this girl she just gonna say thanks. Then you say "did you know that I was only supposed to put these flags away?" See how it differs from yours, as this one is a question and addresses that you realize she wasn't supposed to help you, but you don't necessarily rule her out from helping you? What you said was basically saying, 'girl you're not supposed to do this get out' From there she'll either say yes or no. Yes means YOU'RE IN! If she says no you say "well don't go! I like your company." See how easy that was? In the seat situation you could easily tell her "I like it when you sit by me" or something like that. Sounds lame, but when a girl likes you it works. Really well, I might add.
Author lollerskates Posted January 31, 2007 Author Posted January 31, 2007 well do you think she likes me? evenif just a little? and oh yea, while i was walking home, one of her friends appeared out of nowhere. she just talked to me a little, because she lives near where i do. but i never thought that she would even talk to me
Nezero Posted January 31, 2007 Posted January 31, 2007 FFS just ask her mate. Really you gonna let this one slip away cause she'll eventually think you aren't interested and move on. Instead of asking people on the internet about a girl they have never met if she is interested in you where you probably have the best indication on whether or not she does, just ask her. YOu'll get you answer straightaway and no more of this worrying.
Cous Cous With Goose Posted February 1, 2007 Posted February 1, 2007 well do you think she likes me? evenif just a little? and oh yea, while i was walking home, one of her friends appeared out of nowhere. she just talked to me a little, because she lives near where i do. but i never thought that she would even talk to me DUH! How can you not see all of these indicators? Or maybe you were like me..when I first started getting indicators I knew about them but I for some reason tried to disprove every one of them. The friend one is hard to tell, you shouldn't worry about it. She might've been just being friendly or has an interest in you because her friend talks about you a lot. Just go up to the girl you like, with confidence that you KNOW she likes you because she does. Go up with the mindset that she WONT blow you off because of these strong indicators and unless you do something that will totally turn her off(like trying to be someone you arent ie if you're a skinny kid trying to be a tough guy or trying to be extra funny when you've got an average sense of humor).
Author lollerskates Posted February 1, 2007 Author Posted February 1, 2007 well ok... but i think her friends make fun of me... i said hi to one of her friends (a boy) and he was just kinda laughing at me. oh yea, then today i was playing soccer with my friends, and she was too, then she just pointed at us and she and her friend were looking at us. i think. maybe not, but she pointed at something =/ EDIT: yea i am like that, trying to disprove everything ><
Author lollerskates Posted February 2, 2007 Author Posted February 2, 2007 well, heres something that could mean she doesnt like me.well me and my friends and her usually run to our team rows, just for fun. well this time it was only her and me, and i was catching up (shes REALLY fast) so she looked behind her and just stopped. i just kept runing tho. well then my team and her team had to play against eachother in soccer. they litteraly owned us. i mean 6 to 0. i kept kicking the ball out for no reason ( i wasnt trying to)
Cous Cous With Goose Posted February 3, 2007 Posted February 3, 2007 well, heres something that could mean she doesnt like me.well me and my friends and her usually run to our team rows, just for fun. well this time it was only her and me, and i was catching up (shes REALLY fast) so she looked behind her and just stopped. i just kept runing tho. well then my team and her team had to play against eachother in soccer. they litteraly owned us. i mean 6 to 0. i kept kicking the ball out for no reason ( i wasnt trying to) All I'm going to say is, you know her. You've had some conversations with her. You can't make another first impression, but you don't need that. I've made friends after I've spent a lot of quiet moments with them. So there's no excuse not to sit down and talk to her. Once you realize it's not the end of the world if she declines(which she probably wont anyways) that's the key. Once you treat failure as a way to analyze what you did wrong and right it for the next girl, that's when you become the alpha. That's all I gotta say.
Author lollerskates Posted February 6, 2007 Author Posted February 6, 2007 well what do you think my chances are of her saying yes? i know you dont even know her, but i would like an opinion. theres a valentines dance on the 16th... and my birthday is on the 14th =P
Cous Cous With Goose Posted February 9, 2007 Posted February 9, 2007 Would you rather regret getting turned down knowing you had the balls to ask her or regret not even having the balls to ask her?
Magnatolia Posted February 10, 2007 Posted February 10, 2007 Why would you think she doesn't like you because she stopped running? Maybe she was letting you win. Okay, it seems like she likes you. Since she first started hanging around you and talking to you, have her friends changed their reactions towards you? They could be chatting to you to give the friend their opinions. And just because some of her friends don't like you doesn't mean that she feels the same way. Try casually asking if she's going with anyone to the dance. Then watch the 'way' she answers. If she says yes but looks unhappy or disappointed, chances are she wanted to go with you but someone beat you to it (I'm sure you're not the only single guy at your school). Or she could say no. Her attitude/body language will make it clear if she wants you to ask her. Give us an update.
Author lollerskates Posted February 15, 2007 Author Posted February 15, 2007 well i dont know if their reaction has changed.i mean they talk to me a little sometimes... maybe.. well what kind of body language tells me that she does like me? i think she glances at me well more i know then i think. and the other day i was running and she was in front of me. she looked back and saw me and she started to run faster. im just sayin =/ the dance is on friday... so yea..
Magnatolia Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 Did she let out an ear-piercing scream as she ran away? haha if not maybe she was being competitive? Based on what you've written previously, she looks at you and listens when you're talking, even to other people. These could very well be friend signals - I mean you said she looked at you when you went PSST. Well personally if someone was behind me and did that I'd turn around too. Looking at you, well that could mean either. Personally, I think you're going to have to just ask her to the dance. Any way you can casually find out what she got up to on V-day? Something like 'How was your v-day? Get any thing special?' She's a girl. If she got anything she'll spill all her secrets including a potential boyfriend.
Mr.Mr Posted February 15, 2007 Posted February 15, 2007 Or maybe you were like me..when I first started getting indicators I knew about them but I for some reason tried to disprove every one of them. I did that when I got what I suspected were indicators from girls because I figured that I was just overanalyzing things, looking for something that wasn't there. But yeah, it sounds like this girl may like you, go for it.
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