lou889000 Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 About 18 months ago this guy I had fancied started talking to me but he was already in a relationship everytime he was near where I worked he would pop in have a look around and go, then 3 months l8r as I was pulling up to work in my car he blocked me and said "When r u going to go out with me" in reply I said after my divorce. The following week He came down again and we had to go to the same place so we walked there together, " so it's ok to walk with me" he said, I laughted and continued walking I went back 2 where I worked and he followed me and asked " so do I get ur number now" Again I laughted but he asked again " Please can I have your number to phone you" So I agreed an gave him my number thinking tht he wouldn't ring, Igot home that evening and to my surprise just as I sat down my phone rang and it was him again asking me out I text back and from then on he continued to txt back alot every night and we got to know each other quite well he would pop into wher I work and give me a kiss and a hug then Finally after a further 6 month I agreed to go on a date the day of the date I had everything b4 hand went wrong so I was a little wery when I tried up But everything was nice we had a nice meal and drinks which he would leave me pay for and then when the date was over he kissed me and said Shall we do it again after that we had a few more dates but Kept everything hush for my sake. we still continued to text and chat but it was getting awkward to arrange dates as we both have children and we were both unavailable when the other was free. Then his mates who I already knew kept coming in the shop and saying when u and him going out and I would play it down and say he wasn't interested and they would turn arund and say that he was bcos he'd been tellin them all about me and saying that he was gonna take me out. After a few text and chat's I asked him if he wanted to have dinner again he agreed but then said that he had already aranged something and he couldn't get out of it so I stopped txtin and said that when he knew what he wanted 2 give me a ring after a month he started txtin alott again but I just answered the bear or not at all. everytime he saw me he would make a point of getting my attention wavin beepin excetra eg for mother's day he emailed me a card because he thought that I didn't have one of my children he rings me up to say happy b'day, xmas, etc . I'd love to know if he is really is interested and just insecure because of his past and because my ex had been on to him sayin stuff about me. I really get the impression he is by th little things he says an does but am scared to do anything about it incase he not as I don't want 2 b hurt. Sorry it has gone on for so long.
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