Samantha2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Hi all , I have had the most amazing thing happen to me and wanted to share it with you all and get some more insight because I am so amazed and just don't want to make a fool of myself ! I will try to keep this as short as possible !!! I met this guy "E" when I was 18 and he was 19 , my sister introduced us and it was like an instant relationship , it was wonderful , he treated me so great the catch was I was married and seperated , and really never planned on going back to my husband but I ended up feeling like I had to , even though it ended in divorce a very short time later , like a metter of weeks ...lol Well when I came back "E" was no where to be found so I just kinda moved on but always wondered how he was and what he was up to . So now fast forward 15 years and another marriage down the drain and 2 beautiful daughters later ... "E" contacts me just 2 days ago !! We talked on the phone Friday night and decided to see each other Saturday night . Not knowing what was gonna happen but I was so excited to see him . And the moment I seen him I knew I was a gonner !! So any how we ordered our meal and we are sitting there just talking like we had never lost the past 15 years and out of the blue he grabbed my hand and was holding it on the table and OMG the sparks just went crazy , but how after all that time ?? We ended up sitting there for 4+ hours not knowing anything going on around us at all , even our waitress apologized when she asked if we needed anything !! Well we decided we didn't want the night to end but he had something he had to do , actually he had people at his house that had been waiting on him for 2 and a half hours ...lol But he called me when they left and he came and got me and we went and talked , ended up kissing (alot) !! He poured his heart out to me that he didn't realize how much he had missed me til he seen me and even more so after we touched and kissed . And I am sooo feeling the same way , I felt like I had found something that I had been missing for sooo long . Heres the twist though .... He had been with this 1 girl since we split , married her , divorced her and then got back together with her , well she packed some of her stuff , took money and nec . and left state on the 2nd of this month . And he has no idea what is going on there , and because of all the years invested and his heart of gold he doesn't know what to do about that situation , she has some medical problems so that doesn't help .But he told me that he is hoping she decides to stay where she is because he wants to be with me in a full fledge committed realtionship . He said he never wants to lose contact with me no matter what the future holds . I am in shock but so very happy , this was sooo unexpected and has totally thrown out my whole entire thought on not getting into a relationship again ( I have been single for 7+ yrs ) ! I guess what I am wondering is this all possible to want to be with someone so quickly ??? Sorry if this all sounds crazy out of order but I didn't sleep at all last night ...lol and not sure if I could even sleep now I am so wound ! Thanx for listening all !
lorr Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 A big congratulations from me,that is fantastic news. I hope everything works out for the both of you.
iceblued Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 its is really cool to hear that it is posble to regain a lost relationship.congratulations on that.on a serious note,i dont know u or what the reasons r.it just seems like, noone is actualy thinking before doing anything.i mean u been devorced twice,and so has the man u talking bought been devorecd.what are you guys thicking when u meet sum1 and get married,then walk away.marrige should b taken seriously.yes if there is abuse or cheating a marrige is bound to fail.im not saying this happend to you.i mean what about your children??.what do they think and feel if u met or married sum1 again.to be honest,i noticed this alot, and it is the biggest downfall in western ways.divorce and marrige are takin as a joke.if u want my honest opion.sit down and talk to your children first.if they are to young,then talk to sum1 who u know and they know u.inside out.ask them what they think before u do anything.people fall in love and get carried away.love is good,sex is good,relationships r good,but all these r meaningless and pointless if there is no commiment.commitment to stand by each other no matter what.befroe you go all out sit back and be realistic.when we lose sum1 or divorce sum1.there has to be issues with both people.find out and resolve any issue u have or may feel u have.then u know what is best to do.u only live once,and dont keep making mistakes.learn from everything,then decide.i hope it works out for you in a postive way.
Zaira Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 What's meant to be, will be...... and it seems yours has finally happened!! I'm glad you're happy. I hope everything works out perfectly for you both.
Author Samantha2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Author Posted January 9, 2007 Thanks so much for the replies ... Ice thank you too , I know it seems quick and no thought has went into this but I have thought about this man for quite some time now and just never thought I would even get a chance to say hi to him let alone have these feelings ! On the divorce thing , I was cheated on by both ex's numerous times , and my first marriage was when I was 16 , I was too young and the second was because I had his child , neither one of them ever made me feel like this ... Way back when I always seem to what I thought I was suppose to do , like whatever was right for everyone else and putting myself last and now I am realizing how foolish those choices were and I am gonna go with this feeling and see where it leads me !! As for my girls they met him tonight and completely approved ! They have a say in all my decisions because it does affect them too ! Now I am just hoping for the best !! Thanx again !!!
Zaira Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 Oooh, I am soooooooo excited for you Samantha. Please keep us up to date how everything is going. Definately sounds like destiny has played a hand in this one
daphne Posted January 10, 2007 Posted January 10, 2007 I'm excited for you but please, SLOW DOWN. You've waited this long. Don't start it off wrong by rushing in. Take your time and get to know him again. His circumstances aren't perfect adn you don't know what's going to happen.
Author Samantha2007 Posted January 11, 2007 Author Posted January 11, 2007 Thank You all for your nice comments ! And no we are not rushing we are taking it day to day , we talk like 6 hours a day on the phone and we have seen eachother too . And for me this is amazing because I have never had feelings so intense ... I am a person who controls my emotions and don't let things get the best of me but I can feel that changing with him . I want to just go with this feeling and he does feel the same , he told me how he was feeling before I said anything ! I want to go with it and see where it leads us ! I will definately keep you updated !!! Thanx again Samantha
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