Author Ukwizard Posted January 15, 2007 Author Posted January 15, 2007 Ukwizard, You want to know why she would date so many men... well from my perspective after being in an unhappy marriage for so long she "saw the light" so to speak, she saw that there are guys out there who are far better than her ex-H. She became free to to what she wanted, she could go date whoever she wanted. She was probably also afraid of getting hurt again, maybe she still is, so every time a guy got close to her she freaked out and ran. There could be a million reasons why one of those 8 guys, including you, didn't make her happy for that long, you really can't figure out why without talking to her Thank you Shoegirl. Thanks for shedding some light from your own experiences why people date around. I gues your answer is one of the most realistic answers. I guess I can`t make her happy, unless I speak to her. Remember though I was dating her for 6 months, and although, not long. Its longer than any of her other men she dated. I must have done something right. When do people who date around settle? I ve been told that people who date around, die old with 20 cats!
GreenEyedLady Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Sorry, but I see why she broke up with you over email...
Porn_Guy Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 I ve been told that people who date around, die old with 20 cats! does that apply to men also? whats going on in your head UKW?
ShoeGirl Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 When do people who date around settle? I ve been told that people who date around, die old with 20 cats! No one will be able to tell when she will decide to settle down, except maybe her. I guess if someone were to date around and never settle down could die old with 20 cats, but I don't think that applies to everyone
tinktronik Posted January 16, 2007 Posted January 16, 2007 Personally I know that after my own long and unhappy marriage , I was ready to get to know people and not settle for less than what I wanted , as I had already wasted too much of my own time doing that. If a guy turned out to be not what I wanted in life I moved on , there was no longer any reason to stay around for what I did not want . I think Pupet that you need to accept that you simply were not what she was looking for in her life and move on yourself .
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