Rooster_DAR Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 You know it's strange that when your standing around single at a dance club or any social enviroment and your single, women generally don't even notice you. I was at the hottest singles bar here last weekend and was pretty much just standing there watching the band for a couple of hours. Then a girl from work that likes me called to say she was coming out to meet me. When she got there, we went straight to the dance floor and cut the rug. Now all of a sudden the women who I seemed transparent to where giving me the eye and making moves on me right in front of my date. WTF? I'm thinking I've been here singel all night, and now you want to give me the time of day when you see some hottie dancing with me? Strange how people operate!' I guess this should be a lesson on guys who have a rough time meeting women. I suggest taking a female (your sister, a friend) out and use them as a wing person. It works like a charm. D'oh!
princessa Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Duh, of course having a woman who's not disgusted by you by your side automatically gives you credit in anybody's eyes!! It's like screaming out to the world "LOOK AT ME, IM NOT A FREAK, DONT BE AFRAID".. Hahaah But I would also add that women do appreciate a good dancer, and they probably enjoyed the show. The dancefloor being in the spot light, of course it will get you noticed 10 times faster than standing still in the corner. Maybe you should've asked one of the single girls you didn't know for one dance?
princessa Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Oh and also, I would add that in general, the fact that people see you talking to other people automatically makes you more approachable. This works for both men and women. I don't know, in my experience people have always been scared to come up to me until they've seen me talking to other girls/guys.. it's like... omg look! Shes actually human!
witabix Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Another thing I noticed about your post, you were watching the band, so were the women. I am single again now and have started gigging again. Really gets you noticed and with no effort (Well a two or three hour solo gig is a bit of an effort, but you know what I mean) women will come over and talk to you as princessa says if they have a lead into talking to you thats not corny. Like "Do you know such and such a song?" Even better if you encourage them to sing it with you! It is nearly impossible not to look a little out of place if you are standing in a club alone. Your tactic of having a woman with you is a definate winner, I noticed how much more interested women are when I am out with a friend, but you gotta be careful not to insult your friend it is NOT COOL to leave a female friend alone in a club and go home with someone else!!!! Get yourself noticed, in the right way, women will remember you the next time they see you, trust me!
magda Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Could it be because you were then dancing instead of standing around?
EnigmaXOXO Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 It's the bimbos who only want you when your with someone that you want to stay away from! Don't repeat relationship lessons #1 and #2. Fruit-loops are BAD for your health! BTW … the confident hottie from work who likes you enough to pick up the phone and actually call? … Is she single and sane??? So far, I LIKE her!
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