Guest66 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 My ex and I were together for a year and he dumped me on Christmas...apparently this is because I brought up why he had been acting strange...so I sort of knew it was coming. Anyway, that was a Monday...He slept over my house on Thursday and everything was normal, but we were still broken up. Then he asked me to leave him alone for a week and he would call me the following weekend. So Saturday he does call me. And he wants to see me but thinks it's a bad idea because he's seeing someone new. He met this person on New Year's...just FIVE days after he dumped me...I must have met a real lot to him huh? He wants to be friends. So that afternoon he comes over. And we sleep together. And now he says it is going to be too hard to see me and not sleep with me. So now I feel like I can't have him as my friend because he can't control himself? Although, I have to say...him sleeping with me made me feel a whole lot better about him havng a new girlfriend. Even though it was just sex and makes him a jerk...at least he still wants me in some way and she can't mean that much to him. But that's a pathetic way to think...And I know I would do it again and I know it's not good...Plus if they get serious then I will feel hurt again because he won't want me at all...Should I just not see him at all? I mean we were friends for years before we started seeing each other and I've come to realize our relationship was mostly talking and sex anyways...We were never "in love" so I guess that's why it had to end eventually, but I still miss him! Thanks for listening...
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