paris38 Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 thoughts? It really helped me through a relationship about 2 years ago....I realized he was just not that into me and stopped pursuing a dead end relationship. When someone breaks up with you, they are just not that into you, right? so when the ex is emailing and casually phoning you, he is just not that into you,right? He is into you when he is really begging you forgiveness for dumping you and proposes. Agreed?
resi71 Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 agree,what is sayng.what is hes future plans? where are you in midwest?
guin_girl Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 His other book "It's called a breakup because it's broken" is really good too.
resi71 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 okey.i am in minnesota,hope you are doing okey.i am going up and down
LN99 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Ooo, I heard about that book but never read it. Who is the author?
Author paris38 Posted January 7, 2007 Author Posted January 7, 2007 I'm doing pretty well tonight. My sister is in town and we're having a blast. It helps put in perspective the people who are really going to be there in your life no matter what....I'll have to read about your situation, I know the up/down thing.
Author paris38 Posted January 7, 2007 Author Posted January 7, 2007 after you're broken up, it might come off as kind of blunt and to the point and if you just broke up your emotions might be too raw to read the blunt reality the book gives about when a man really is 'into you' or when he 'isn't'.
LN99 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 after you're broken up, it might come off as kind of blunt and to the point and if you just broke up your emotions might be too raw to read the blunt reality the book gives about when a man really is 'into you' or when he 'isn't'. Does that book talk about when you see someone you find interesting but you aren't quite sure if he is into you or not? Does it give you ways to figure out if he is or not?
Author paris38 Posted January 7, 2007 Author Posted January 7, 2007 If you're dating someone but he doesn't really call that much, doesn't make an effort to see you that much, you find yourself initiating a lot of the time together, he says "he's really busy at work" a lot as excuses.....you might really care for him but he's not showing you that he's really crazy about you and doing anything he can to get to spend time with you....he is not that into you . It's a lot of common sense and about having self-respect. Why hang around with a guy who is lukewarm about you and is not crazy about you (into you.) It's kind of liberating as if a guy isn't calling you , isn't wanting to spend much time with you, isn't really pursuing you, you can just let it go because he isn't really into you and it will go nowhere.
LN99 Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Hmmm. Good to know. Thanx for the info. I will have to check it out.
Guest Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 If you're dating someone but he doesn't really call that much, doesn't make an effort to see you that much, you find yourself initiating a lot of the time together, he says "he's really busy at work" a lot as excuses.....you might really care for him but he's not showing you that he's really crazy about you and doing anything he can to get to spend time with you....he is not that into you . It's a lot of common sense and about having self-respect. Why hang around with a guy who is lukewarm about you and is not crazy about you (into you.) It's kind of liberating as if a guy isn't calling you , isn't wanting to spend much time with you, isn't really pursuing you, you can just let it go because he isn't really into you and it will go nowhere. any guys's opinion here? i would like to hear from your thinking.
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