Guest Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 So about a month ago, I met this girl online through a friend(Mike). The girl told Mike to "hook her up" with some of his friends and in return she would hook him up with her friends. And I was that guy. Anyway, I met her in person about 1 week after i met her online. The meeting was decent, but I was nervous as hell. After she gave me a hug, and left. After I got home, i instant messaged her saying that i was so nervous" blah blah blah. I did a little test the following days after to see if she was still gonna talk with me (I though if she was not interested, she wouldn't talk with me). I would not IM her, to see if she would initiate the convo. She did a few times, then after I started the IM's. My question is IDK what she wants. Friends or More? What should be my next step of action? Please, Please, Please help me! I need a girlfriend! LOL
Blue Phoenix Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 Well genraly ide say take your time a bit even more so with some one you met on line. Even if it was tho a mutual friend you dont want to come off as desprate or nothing.On computers the not IMing some one thing can back fire on ya. They might be sitting at there keybord thinking the same thing..lol So if you realy liked her then make the move to talk to her when you see her around.Far as the friends or more thing ide give it some time. I know myself when guys ask that right away it kinda comes off a bit much..Just work on the friends thing 1st be sweet to her and if that goes well then ask away heck by that point ask her out!!
nextel Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 Here is the thing.....If you really want to get to know her, and know her as more than just friends, then you should pursue her. Watch her actions. After a while of you wanting to get to know her, either she will start to call you etc etc or she wont. Watch her actions. Besides, what do you have to lose by being the person to direct your interaction with her?
Hitman10000 Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Screw waiting for the signs, go for it. Instinct rules over logic.
Zaira Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 You need a girlfriend? Hmmm... don't look desperate! And don't actually BE desperate for a girlfriend. This girl might not even be your type. Don't go chasing someone because you just want a girl by your side! My suggestion - ask her out on another date. If it goes well, ask her if she'd like to continue hanging out. Then let things progress naturally.
Guest Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 we were talking about how a cold was going around, and she says this "and this guy i recently dated has it". Does that mean she has a BF? Or mabye she made it up so I got jealous? I wanna I ask her out, will she accept or say that she has a BF? You woman are tough to understand!
Guest Posted January 19, 2007 Posted January 19, 2007 She has started every convo for the last 5 days or so! You think I have a chance?
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