Guest Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 To cut a long story short,(i hope).Was with my ex 4 1/2 years and very happy.Joint bank account,holidays planned etc.He had to go away on placement this year which meant because of finance/work/uni we would not see each other so much but we thought we would get through it. He was gone just 5 weeks and i went to stay for a week.When i got off the plane he picked me up and was kissing me and was really happy to see me.The next few days were fantastic but after 4 days of being there he ended it.He said he loved me/was still in love with me but it was his decision at that time to end things. I went n/c and he contacted me a few times but i told him to stop because it was too painful.A couple of weeks later he text me again asking how i was.I told him that the only way i wanted him to contact me was if he wanted to try again and to be truthful with me but he said i am being truthful.i love you but i have made my decision for now. I got angry and told him he wasnt being fair and kept telling him to say it was over for good if thats what he wanted but he wouldnt.After a while he eventually said if you want me to say it then i will.He asked me if i was in another r/ship and i said no but there is some1 who has been here for me and he started sobbing saying he couldnt believe things had come to this. We have been split up over 4 months now and apart from him turning up with his family at christmas we have not made any contact.Im moving on with my life but cant help but think what made him end things after only 5 weeks apart.Any ideas?
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