sigh..wtf did i do wrong... on the 6th day blah

[shyguy101]

well new years night i began dating someone i knew for 2 weeks..off the computer...through a friend..well ive hung out with her 4 times total..3 of the times we were dating...well we were talking last night and she says..she wants to be my friend 1st before dating me..saying we rushed things...but i think theres something else to it... why not date me..as were getting to know eachother..why be difficult and want to breakup to be my friend knowing..we would probably never date again..so why ruin it now..i dont understand i really dont...im new to this stuff anyway...we made out..held hands..cuddled..slept next to eachother holding hands..and im a virgin and she knows it..in the end..i think it bothered her which lead up to her wanting to break up..were gonna talk more about it tonight..i really like her and i dont wanna breakup..she asked me out..and now shes the one wanting to end this..damn me..i need some advice on what to do..thanks guys..

[LN99]

Well, the thing is she wanted this relationship right away and she can end it just as quickly. I don't think you did anything wrong. You were honest with her and you were yourself. There's no harm in that. Maybe she just felt like she rushed into asking you out and really wants to get to know you better before comitting to anything further. At least she let you know that.

 

When you see her tonight, just ask her where you guys stand. Find out what she wants and if shes just saying all this as an easy way to bow out.

[IpAncA]

Maybe she felt that things were rushed but then again she may have someone else in mind too.

[shyguy101]

i said to her..so u wanna break up with me and get someone better..and she was promising me there was noone else..sooo i dont know what to think...u think she could be serious bout wantin to gettting to know me better? this hurts me alot..