Porn_Guy Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 I agree with Mr. Porn.. Simple.. If she blows you off you have the finality that you need in your soap opera..hence the ability to move on.. If she doesn't then you still get the finality.. yep......
Ariadne Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Hi Tp, but... this guy she "fell for"..... what did she see in him that made her fall so hard for him? I mean, she fell for me. She seems to me like the kind of girl that falls "head over heels" for every guy she's with for like a month or three. I'm sure the guy in between she was the same as in love. It's just bs, Ariadne Ps: Date Ariawoman, she likes Jews
burning 4 revenge Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 I don't know what you gain from trying to be friends with her. Do you want her to make you a one of her male girlfriends she talks to about the "real" men in her life?
Porn_Guy Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 I don't know what you gain from trying to be friends with her. Do you want her to make you a one of her male girlfriends she talks to about the "real" men in her life? agreed B4r....he should contact her just for fun and to "feel her out" if you know what i mean *wink*....but friends is outta the question...
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 7, 2007 Author Posted January 7, 2007 Ps: Date Ariawoman, she likes Jews Ariadne.... IF she and I weren't already the closest of friends.... and... IF she wasn't already involved.... and... IF we met under different circumstances.... and... The Dallas Cowboys win the Superbowl this year... THEN... we will. And to sweeten the pot, Ariadne, IF that happens, we'll take lots of pictures of our first date, all the way from me showing up in a pinstripe suit with 2 dozen red roses, to the end of the evening with our clothing strewn all over the floor of the local Red Roof Inn while 2 donkeys and a midget nuzzle our much-lubricated bodies as we slosh around on the floor in a frenzied, rhythmic pace. AND... the whole time, I'll wear my yarmulke. How's that? -tp *running to check the scores....whew*
Ariadne Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Hey, IF she and I weren't already the closest of friends.... and... That´s where the best relationships come from (plus you look happy together) AND... the whole time, I'll wear my yarmulke. Sexy! Good luck there, and looking good in the avatar pic, Ariadne
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 7, 2007 Author Posted January 7, 2007 That´s where the best relationships come from (plus you look happy together) True, but friends should always look that way AND... the whole time, I'll wear my yarmulke. Sexy! I can rock the beanie. looking good in the avatar pic Why, thank you! -tp holla fo yo rabbi, beeotch!
allina Posted January 7, 2007 Posted January 7, 2007 Hey tp, I think it's human nature to search for answers, and to desire all the why's and what if's to be figured out, unfortunately with relationships there usually aren't any clear answers or reasons. I know it's easier said than done, but instead of searching and wanting to figure it all out try to realize that none of it matters and none of it will make a difference. What happened happened and it's not going to change no matter what she tells you her reasons were. She wasn't the one for you, be glad she set you free when she did, you now have the chance to find a new relationship with someone who wants to be with you and could possibly be the one.
AriaIncognito Posted January 8, 2007 Posted January 8, 2007 Ariadne.... And to sweeten the pot, Ariadne, IF that happens, we'll take lots of pictures of our first date, all the way from me showing up in a pinstripe suit with 2 dozen red roses, to the end of the evening with our clothing strewn all over the floor of the local Red Roof Inn while 2 donkeys and a midget nuzzle our much-lubricated bodies as we slosh around on the floor in a frenzied, rhythmic pace. AND... the whole time, I'll wear my yarmulke. Ok now that, made me laugh lol. People do need to stop trying to set us up. For one, yes, I am definitely currently involved. For two, in the case that I am no longer involved, i will be an emotional carpet and won't wanna be with anyone for a while lol. I hope to not come to that, though. We'll see.
notmakingsense Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 TP, seriously, man to man, forget romance and drama for a while.... I think you just need to get laid. NMS --- Mr. "Easier said than done" (copying TP's tag-line style)
Spinderella Posted January 9, 2007 Posted January 9, 2007 I didnt understand the story, but, after reading the replies it seems everyone else did, so maybe it's just me today. I will say it anyway. If noone has been able to contact her, then how do you know she is not with the guy she moved in with? Or have I misread? Also I agree. You should contact her. Sometimes you can build up a fantasy about someone that doesnt dissolve until you see the reality again. It might be like that. Or it might just be that little bit more pain that pushes you to heal yourself, like homeopathy or something.
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 10, 2007 Author Posted January 10, 2007 TP, seriously, man to man, forget romance and drama for a while.... I think you just need to get laid. NMS --- Mr. "Easier said than done" (copying TP's tag-line style) I DO need to get laid. I'm jealous of you. My initials are lowercase for a reason! -tp needs a lass to push his shift key
Ariadne Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 People do need to stop trying to set us up. For one, yes, I am definitely currently involved. (I bet that D of yours is already getting jealous of TP) Ariadne
AriaIncognito Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 I can't really tell if he gets jealous of it or not. He knows that we talk almost daily. I think he's pretty confident in how I feel about him though, so he doesn't really spend time worrying about me. Else, he wants me to find someone else since he's still unsure lol either way. Whatever will be, will be. I'm just hoping for the best...
Author Teacher's Pet Posted January 14, 2007 Author Posted January 14, 2007 He has no reason to be jealous. But... they don't call me Big Poppa for nothin' -tp ...and Adam said to Eve, "stand back! I don't know how big this thing gets!"
Ariadne Posted January 15, 2007 Posted January 15, 2007 Hi, He has no reason to be jealous. Well... you are smart, you are deep... you respect Ariawoman, you truly care for her, you guys hang out and have a really good time together, she trusts you with her problems... all kind of stuff like that. I'd say you have a deep emotional bond by now with her. (The "in love" feelings are just there to fool people) Ariadne
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