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when would be the right time for the next move?


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hey guys, i been dating this girl i met on myspace. i met her like a week before thanksgiving. we been talkin like almost everyday thru emails. i ended up meeting her in person a month after. we met for dinner and clicked it off pretty well. after that i had asked her if she wanted to meet up again for some starbucks and she accepted. we have really good conversations and she tells me that im a nice guy this and that and i think the same of her she is really sweet and outgoing. this past week we went ice skating, we had lots of fun. it was really nice that i was holding her hand cuz we were both on the ledge, both didnt know how to skate at all but we had fun. we talk like 3 times a week on the phone for hours. this weekend we are gonna go out dancing cuz she likes to dance. i really like this girl but in the back of my mind im afraid of that "juss friends thing". it has happened to me before. the other day i suprised her at work and brought her some lunch. she was really happy. i juss feel something like that would give her a sign u know. i juss want to know when would be the right time for me to make a move and let her know how i feel. i really like her and i know for a fact im not in a rush to ask her. i get feedback from friends the longer u wait bro that might give her the impression that u juss want to be friends and other buddies tell me nahh if she really likes u then she will be pacient and wait. i feel like i known her for a long time but its been 4 dates that we been out on. we both feel comfortable being around each other. her b-day is coming up next month and i think i will be ready to make a move or more important i think that when i feel its time then i will. i would appreciate any advice. thanks.

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You know you could be a gentleman about it and ask her for a kiss.

 

I love when guys do that. :love:

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I dont know about asking for a kiss, I think you might want to take a to a really romantic place and as you have a deep conversation, hold her hands and gently lean over to kiss her but very slowly this I believe would give her heads up to what you are going to do--- never tested it this is my personal opinion I guess I am not that lucky

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