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Hi guys,

 

I've still got quite a bit of my exs stuff, who im not convinced was entirely happy with her descision to end it with me.

 

I know she'll be ringing (more likely texting) me in a week or so to get some stuff back (if nothing else). When she does i want to be able to get her to meet me, just for a chat about life, so hopefully i can show her what shes been missing :)

 

What do you reckon is the best way of tackling this? I not very good with words, so i need to plan beforehand what im going to say. I dont want to come across like im obviously just desperate, i know i need to come across confident and not depressed but how to word it???

 

Shes got exams at the mo, so it wont be until after then, so maybe i can use this to my advantage (i.e. ask to find out how they went)

 

Do you think i should ask her to go for a drink? Or does that sound too much like a date?

 

Any tips would be greatly appreciated :)

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First of all why did she dump you? Then you need to ask yourself if a second chance is really a good idea. If you think that you two have a good thing, than when she comes to get her stuff........Lay your cards out on the table and tell her how you feel. Be cool, calm, and collected. If she regrets leaving you and really misses the realtionship. She'll respond positively. Good luck to you, and remember...... WHAT'S MEANT TO BE WILL BE! :)

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